Hi, I need some advice on what I should do.
I have gotten married recently (I'm 24, was a virgin before marriage), During our honeymoon, we tried having an intercourse, which was extrimely painful for me - I did loose my virginity, I definately felt it breaking inside, and it was some of the worst pain I have ever experienced. I did bleed, not much though.
After that, I thought the worst was over and things should be fine. Well when we tried again, I bled a little and it hurt, when I looked in the mirror, I saw that my skin was ripped on the bottom of my vagina, towards anus, and so that's why there was blood.
During these few attemts, my husband's penis did not fully enter my vagina - his penis is not small, but not huge, probably average. We have used plently of lubrication, relaxed, I was very aroused and all that.
But the opening is still too small. I have tried stretching it and I think it helped a little. The vagina itself is not small, I'm sure of that. JUST the opening, and so it rips. What can I do? I don't want to go to the doctor, that would be so embarrassing (and I would tell someone like me not to be embarrassed, but I am). Is there something that I can do? I don't know if this is relevant, but I am 5'6", slim built.
Thank you very much in advance!
I have gotten married recently (I'm 24, was a virgin before marriage), During our honeymoon, we tried having an intercourse, which was extrimely painful for me - I did loose my virginity, I definately felt it breaking inside, and it was some of the worst pain I have ever experienced. I did bleed, not much though.
After that, I thought the worst was over and things should be fine. Well when we tried again, I bled a little and it hurt, when I looked in the mirror, I saw that my skin was ripped on the bottom of my vagina, towards anus, and so that's why there was blood.
During these few attemts, my husband's penis did not fully enter my vagina - his penis is not small, but not huge, probably average. We have used plently of lubrication, relaxed, I was very aroused and all that.
But the opening is still too small. I have tried stretching it and I think it helped a little. The vagina itself is not small, I'm sure of that. JUST the opening, and so it rips. What can I do? I don't want to go to the doctor, that would be so embarrassing (and I would tell someone like me not to be embarrassed, but I am). Is there something that I can do? I don't know if this is relevant, but I am 5'6", slim built.
Thank you very much in advance!
umm i think the reason may be due to past sexual relations. " were you a virgin before him?" it may be that he is still a little "BIG" at the personal moment and your body is still getting used to him.
It could be a medical problem. You should go to a dr. I had to, and the dr. Saylot here are lots of reasons for pain that you need to get checked.