So, besides the fact that I haven't gotten pleasure during sex with my boyfriend, I recently noticed that I have swelling on the left inner labia of my vagina.
It doesn't hurt and it doesn't itch either. I just notice it is swollen compared to the right side which looks normal.
I looked online and there is something that sounds similar to what I have been experiencing called Bartholin Cyst.
I really don't want it to be that. I mean, this is the first time I noticed this, the first time I have had a sexual partner and there has been a lot of different activities lately that could cause swelling.
I mean, my boyfriend fingered my vagina last week trying to tear my hymen, and he was really rough when he did that. Im wondering if he could have scraped the side of my wall and that is why it is swollen. Is that possible?
Also, I have tried feminine cleaning cloths and shampoo lately, maybe I had a reaction to them?
I do have sensitive skin usually. And I used Veet ( its like Nair, a hair remover) I used it for my vagina hair, the outside but it might have gotten in and that stuff is pretty strong.
Then, I had sex with my boyfriend, rough sex a few times. I heard that can cause swelling too.
So Im getting frustrated wondering what is the cause for the swelling and how long to wait before I should worry.
Some people say use cold water others say warm. I dont know what to do.
I was going to wait a week, and not do anything sexual and not use any feminine products, down there.
Does anyone else have advice what I can do or how to figure out what the cause is of the swelling?
Please help! Ive been so depressed lately over this sex c**p and now to have this issue is making it worst. UGH!
I just want things to go right and be happy!
I still have this cyst thing. Still doesn't hurt or getting bigger. I'll probably go to gyn when I have time.