I'm a little bit worried over the other night. Last night, I decided to lose my virginity to my boyfriend who was very patient and extremely kind. I couldn't have picked a better boy.I knew beforehand I would experience some pain and wasn't worried- it's normal. I used protection (spermicidal condoms and lube) and tried missionary first- which really hurt. I didn't really worry too much about it though, because I'm sure it was normal. But later on, it continued to hurt- mostly when leaving my vagina and not so much entering it. The pain I felt originated from the area of my vagina on the outside- where it's closer to my bum.
But last last night when I got home, I was worried about how sore I was and decided to check myself.
It almost looks as if I've torn that bottom outside area- and I've read on either sites that it could be for many reasons, some being a large penis (I think my boyfriend is average), a lack of lube, or me not bring turned on- or rape cases.
It hurts to pee a little bit.
I'm just wondering- should I be worried? Will it get better, and has this happened to anyone else?
Remember, I'm not asking about the whole hymen thing. I'm asking about the tearing.
Thank you so much for any advice, or your input.
PLEASE help!
But last last night when I got home, I was worried about how sore I was and decided to check myself.
It almost looks as if I've torn that bottom outside area- and I've read on either sites that it could be for many reasons, some being a large penis (I think my boyfriend is average), a lack of lube, or me not bring turned on- or rape cases.
It hurts to pee a little bit.
I'm just wondering- should I be worried? Will it get better, and has this happened to anyone else?
Remember, I'm not asking about the whole hymen thing. I'm asking about the tearing.
Thank you so much for any advice, or your input.
PLEASE help!
The torn you got probably was caused by not being turned on or not enough foreplay, have a shower or quick shower and keep the tear clean three times a day as you wake up, come back from work and at night until it heals before having sex again.
Sometimes the after affects of first times sex is uncomfortable.
Nerves, lack of experience, lack of natural lubrication, lack of arousal, penis size, tightness of the vagina, one really never knows for sure. But you should be fine. Each time you have sex it will become less irritating and there won't be that much stretching after a while.
Nerves, lack of experience, lack of natural lubrication, lack of arousal, penis size, tightness of the vagina, one really never knows for sure. But you should be fine. Each time you have sex it will become less irritating and there won't be that much stretching after a while.
It will 100% heal and it can bleeding again or not please answer me thanks