Hi there, my girlfriend and I are both Virgins, and plan on being for a while to come. Once we started getting sexual urges, we've been satisfying them using our hands, and orally. This is great because it keeps us from being tempted from having sex.

HOWEVER, my girlfriend has started bleeding vaginally during times when I'm pleasuring her with my fingers. I'm only using 2 fingers, but we can get going pretty fast sometimes. A doctor said it was her a hymen getting irritated. We've done everything we can do try and get rid of it without penetrating her. She has her mind firmly made up that she will not use a dildo or anything similar to do it, and we've decided we are not going to have sex for at least another few months.

It's gotten to the point where she's not even done when she starts bleeding, and it then causes her lubrication to go away, causing her horrible discomfort and pressure inside from being unable to finish that hurts her immensely. I care for her immensely, and I can't think of anything else we could do. I've tried being "rough" with my fingers, moving them around, crossing them, etc. Are there any other ways we can stop this bleeding, without having intercourse? Thanks!