yeaterday my boyfriend of one month old, had sex for the first time and after we had sex he went to take a shower and he notice on the head of his peins it had i big blood clot and around it was little ones it look so scary and he told me that this never happen to him ,we both are very worried he is going to the dr tommrrow but i am so worried this may cause our relation to break because he did not say but i think he is blaming me, is it any way this could happen because of me?