what does it actually mean to lose ur virginity? i guess what im trying to ask is, what is your hymen? is it inside or outside of your body? i've done so much research on this, but im still confused. also what does it mean to have "ur cherry popped"?
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Think of your Hymen as like a sheet of flesh inside your body. It stops any object from going too deep inside your vagina. Now as you go through puberty it kind of "rot"s away and becomes weaker and weaker. When you reach the end of puberty it can be broken with a sudden jolt, like riding a bike over a bump in a road.
To "Have ones cherry popped" means to have sex before your Hymen has "rotted" away completly. It is very painful at first but it will have to happen if you have sex before you have finished Puberty.
To "Have ones cherry popped" means to have sex before your Hymen has "rotted" away completly. It is very painful at first but it will have to happen if you have sex before you have finished Puberty.
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well does it feel like anything when you have someone finger you or when someone asks you to finger yourself?
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No, unless you have freakishly long fingers you cannot even touch your hymen with a finger. Maybe if you went as deep as possible, but even then its doubtful. Its there to "safeguard" you form having sex when your too young. Try it with a Banana or something, it should slide in a few inches then you will feel it hit something. If it does, your Hymen is still there since a vaginia should be able to hold a whole banana with no trouble (dont ask me how i know that).
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Hi Lexi! OK first of all Steady iron is talking about your Cervix - which does NOT ROT AWAY!
Your hymen is a little piece of flesh at the base of the opening of your vagina! It tears away with pressure - from intercourse or insertion of other object - such as a tampon that is too big, or hard fingering of the area! Years ago when a man and woman were married, the man would come and show the wedding guests the blood on the sheet to prove that his wife was a virgin! As the force of the penis going into a "unspoiled" hymen would cause bleeding! BUT the problem with that is a womans hymen can withstand quite a bit actually! And some men - whom are small in girth - wont break the hymen! So women by the thousands were stoned to death because the families and the husband thought they weren't virgins! And in some cultures today this still happens and women have had to have their hymen reattched so their husbands don't think they were having out of marriage sex!
Popping a cherry is a crude statement for breaking the hymen! And many many girls have been traumatized when boys/men talk about the fact that THEY were the ones to pop their cherries! It's a gross demeaning word actually!
Do NOT use a bannanna or any thick object like this! As bannannas are FAR bigger than a regular sized penis - plus they contain and are covered with contaminents and pesticides and you could end up with a severe infection - or worse the bannanna damages your vagina and it gets stuck! I was a nursing assistant and a poor women actually came into the Emergency with a bannanna stuck and EVERYONE was talking about it! Also it can cause scarring in the vagina which inturn will cause ridges - from the scar - and this will hinder you in the future from having a regular intimate relationship with someone!
Masturbation involves a LOT of different approaches! And I for one don't think you should be asking people, just explore your body and find out what is pleasurable for you! Or you might get some wrong information - as what has happened!
The longer you wait to have sex the better - young girls who have it FAR TOO YOUNG can end up with a LOT of problems such as UTI's - urinary tract infections, and some can have problems with their hymen healing, and I've even counselled some girls who have bled a lot from this! So take it easy and wait till you are REALLY in love! As having sex is FAR more complicated than just a penis inside a vagina! There are emotions, feeling funny, word spreading, reputations destroyed, pregnancy, STD's/STI's, and you name it! MANY girls I have talked too regret EVERY time! And just because you see it on TV - such as 16 and Pregnant or Teen Mom does NOT take away from the fact that it is an ADULT decision! It's a gift you can NEVER get back! So ALWAYS be TRULY in love and in a committed tender relationship before going there OK?
Your hymen is a little piece of flesh at the base of the opening of your vagina! It tears away with pressure - from intercourse or insertion of other object - such as a tampon that is too big, or hard fingering of the area! Years ago when a man and woman were married, the man would come and show the wedding guests the blood on the sheet to prove that his wife was a virgin! As the force of the penis going into a "unspoiled" hymen would cause bleeding! BUT the problem with that is a womans hymen can withstand quite a bit actually! And some men - whom are small in girth - wont break the hymen! So women by the thousands were stoned to death because the families and the husband thought they weren't virgins! And in some cultures today this still happens and women have had to have their hymen reattched so their husbands don't think they were having out of marriage sex!
Popping a cherry is a crude statement for breaking the hymen! And many many girls have been traumatized when boys/men talk about the fact that THEY were the ones to pop their cherries! It's a gross demeaning word actually!
Do NOT use a bannanna or any thick object like this! As bannannas are FAR bigger than a regular sized penis - plus they contain and are covered with contaminents and pesticides and you could end up with a severe infection - or worse the bannanna damages your vagina and it gets stuck! I was a nursing assistant and a poor women actually came into the Emergency with a bannanna stuck and EVERYONE was talking about it! Also it can cause scarring in the vagina which inturn will cause ridges - from the scar - and this will hinder you in the future from having a regular intimate relationship with someone!
Masturbation involves a LOT of different approaches! And I for one don't think you should be asking people, just explore your body and find out what is pleasurable for you! Or you might get some wrong information - as what has happened!
The longer you wait to have sex the better - young girls who have it FAR TOO YOUNG can end up with a LOT of problems such as UTI's - urinary tract infections, and some can have problems with their hymen healing, and I've even counselled some girls who have bled a lot from this! So take it easy and wait till you are REALLY in love! As having sex is FAR more complicated than just a penis inside a vagina! There are emotions, feeling funny, word spreading, reputations destroyed, pregnancy, STD's/STI's, and you name it! MANY girls I have talked too regret EVERY time! And just because you see it on TV - such as 16 and Pregnant or Teen Mom does NOT take away from the fact that it is an ADULT decision! It's a gift you can NEVER get back! So ALWAYS be TRULY in love and in a committed tender relationship before going there OK?
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thank you sooooooo much you really cleaned up all my questions... do u mind if i have anymore questions or concerns if i private message u?
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Even though several people do private email me! I do prefer it that you ask in the open forum = due to the fact that if you have a question there are probably 100's of others with the same question! So this way more people are helped! No one knows who you are! So don't worry about that OK? I want you to get the best most honest answers! And being open and honest is the best way of getting the right answers!
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