so tonight me and my boyfriend had sex, nothing unusual. We had had sex plenty of times. He was m first time didn't really hurt that bad. Well anyways I ended my period a couple days ago s it had been a while since we had sex. So tonight we did the normal no freaky, kinky, or unusual stuff and when he stuck it in it was an awful pain I couldn't handle it. We took a break me hoping it'd go away and when we tried again we got going and it didn't bother much but it got worse and I made him stop, that has never happened, anyways I'm really worried. The pain was kind of like some thing rough rubbing the inside of my vagina.
I need all the help I can get pleaseeee
Hi honey! I'm a bit confused you said that the first time didn't really hurt that bad, and then you said you have had sex plenty of times! So how long ago did you loose your virginity? Also do you have any thick discharge, or does it smell down there, itch, burn etc.? IF it does you have a yeast infection which means that this is causing the irritation! There are MANY reasons why there is painful intercourse, 1. Infection 2. Wrong position 3. Not enough lubrication 4. Illness, 5. Stress 6. Hormones! So 1st take a mirror and take a look at your vaginal opening and area! Have your boyfriend tell you what he sees too! IF it is raw - it could be from chafing or if you or he shave down there etc. Try and rule in or out the most popular theory (infection, friction) IF neither apply, then you will need him to get lubricated condoms - I hope you use condoms?! Also you can get water soluable lubricant - to help with entry etc. It ALL depends on hormones and how lubricated your vagina is! I hope this helps good luck!