when i put my finger up my vigina it hurts is that normal

U might be too young to cum

isnt that bad to put gel in ur vigina?

well in your vagina no. it will hurt. but up your azz you can. i felt a t**d with my finger, so use something rubber.

I would say that's not a good idea

Its not really healthy to finger yourself at young age but i would Prefer talking about it to learn about it so you don't have to figure it out yourself because for any female or girl it's can cause Pain! If it does don't push or Force yourself because you can break it and that Will be a problem! If you don't know when it doesnt Hurt anymore then try it every month and Remember not to Force it by pushing when it Hurts.

the reason you prob don't cum is because you prob have a kink you don't know about, when i was your age, I couldn't come the only time i cum is when i thought of someone talking dirty to me or choking me, so find out what you like in the bed and use it to your imagination

It does hurt it's NORMAL for it to hurt.