Through the pants where would one find the clitorus of a girl/women I'm asking cause I want to please my Girlfriend and I have never done this sort of thing before and I have been told to stroke my fingures gently over the clitorus. And how gentle is gentle. Take note I'm not allowed to go into her pants so I have to work through pants and panties
The clit is just above her entrance. Its a small bump that makes us go wild