Why are big areolas considered unattractive?

Actually you're areolas seem not to be that big sounds like you have a nice size for your breast size but regardless I find bigger areolas to be very attractive and feminine

Who in the world said that big areolas are unattractive?! I find them to be fascinating to get to see! In fact the more different from common place and the further from "man areolas," making them uniquely and extremely womanly, the sexier they are!

Large areolas are unattractive because they usually come with small nipples or even inverted nipples. This is at least my experience. I've known only one woman with large arolas AND big nipples. In my opinion (or maybe better: to my taste) it"s the nipple which makes the difference between male and female.

This is no rule! My woman is quite the nipple-lady plus she's got large areolas. Best is you don't notice immediately for they are light-coloured in the centre and kindof "fade" into the breast on the outside so that when she wears low-cut bras they actually don't fit inside but you don't really notice until her nipples get hard and her areolas shrivel up.

areolas should match the breast size
I had a grilfriend with small boobs and large areolas and it just didn't feel right, plus she had problems fitting them into a bra (they were not "fading"!!! )

You lot really talk rubbish and make the females that read this feel even more self conscious if they have large areola's, just like every body no one is perfect. How should you guys that are commenting on this like it if your girlfriends said you have large balls but a tiny penis and it doesn't look right?
Give the females encouragement about there bodies and stop making them feel like freaks like you are, if you don't like them then simply don't give negative comments!

I don’t think that’s true I love big areolas nothing turns me on more my girlfriend has huge dark areolas and nice big saggy tits that makes me sooper turned on a lot of men love the big areola and they are not ugly can't begin to tell you how many men would love to have a women with big areolas 

I have large areolas and so does my mother we never thought anything about it. Any of the boys are played with my breasts seem to like the size of my Areolas.

i've never experienced that a man should find my areolas unattractive, they are large and thick, but as someone else wrote they are a nuisance when it comes to chosing a bra or a bikini, especially since my breasts are small so I like to wear push-ups and they of course also "push out" the areolas. I've also got light-coloured ones but they don't "fade" but nonetheless and especially if I'm tanned it takes a close look to notice them so I can manage even if the top doesn't cover them completely but I pity the women with dark-coloured ones.

Who knows why people like what they do?? For some guys it may be what they saw as children and that followed them into adulthood.

For me the best was my girlfriend when I was in my thirties. She had the most fantastic breasts I ever had the pleasure of loving in my entire life. I’m sure if she hadn’t moved to the west coast for her job, we would still be together today. We had such a bond with everything.

She wouldn’t even take her blouse off for the first 4 months if dating. She said guys just wanted her for her breasts as a teenager and she hated it. Well around Christmas that year after we went back to her condo from dinner she told me to turn on the TV and pour some wine and went upstairs to change.

When she came back down she had on a silky bathrobe and came over and stood in front of me. In my wildest dreams I could have never imagined what was to come next.

She said that we have gotten along so well the past months that I’m ready to take this to the next level, but I have to warn you, I may be different from most women you’ve ever seen, but this is the way I am and I’ll know if you find it weird and we shouldn’t stay together.

She slipped off the robe to reveal her black lace panties and bra. I have always loved big breasted women but she was unlike anything I had ever seen in a magazine or anywhere else. The projection and firm cleavage was phenomenal. I became immediately aroused just looking at her in the lingerie.

Then she said here’s where you’re either going to love or hate my physically. She said I’ve looked like this since I was 14 so they are totally real but I’ve always had fibrous breasts and I personally love them so if you find them ugly then we probably aren’t right fit each other.

She unclasped her bra and let it drop. I was instantly in love and now 30 years later I still think about her and even though I finally married and have kids and grandkids now- I have always loved what I had that day and for almost 5 years afterward.

Now a short description and why I say to you that I’m sure you’re fantastic and if we ever met I would make you feel perfect and enjoy the physical relationship with you.

My girlfriend then had 32 DDD breasts that stood straight out like footballs (the fibrous content she talked about), her areolae were medium brown and about 2.5” diameter and puffy (almost pointed) and her nipples were like the end of my index finger and reminded me almost like a baby-bottle nipple. She saw the love & lust in my eyes that evening that then lasted for years. I’m so sorry we weren’t able to stay together all these years but sometimes Gid has other plans for us and I’ve been over-the-moon happy with my life and family.

But those breasts-areolae-nipples were the absolute best I’ve ever had the pleasure of seeing, loving and sucking on in my entire life. Just writing about her now and mentally reminiscing has been wonderful.

Don’t ever change the way you are. God made you that way for a reason and you will always be loved and cherished by the right people. . . .

Idk but I have HUGE ones and I hav hated them all my life while doing anything from trying to kill myself to cutting them and Still I do not find other girls areolas unattractive in any way, just my own. Also I have never seen anyone with this size, big but still smaller than mine. My bg says he likes them but he still watches porn with women completely different from me, also with small areolas. I jusr feel ugly in every single way.. And I just wanna die tbh

Honest answer they make me hard AF. Sorry but you need to accept that some men do some don't and move on. But to assume that all men don't is not smart thinking.

Everything you wrote about large aereola being more difficult for an infant to “find” and that the nipples don’t harden to feed as fast is a bunch of BS. Lmfao.
Let me guess? You’re a cis white dude??
Cause you sure as hell aren’t a lactation consultant or even remotely educated about breastfeeding as
a science in human development and reproductive/neonatal health.

Larger and darker areola are far more easily noticed by a newborn. Their vision is not as developed as babies even six months old, let alone as any adult. We will start with busting that myth, number one.

Next up-
The ignorant “nipple erectness to areola size,” statement…
Do you also think penis size has a bearing on penile erection stiffness too???
My guess is you don’t know what to do with woman-size breasts from the rest of your idiotic post commentary, which is WHY their nipples didn’t become aroused or erect easily for you.
If you’re knew what you were actually doing, and made every woman feel at ease and appreciated, all of their nipples would be aroused and hard very quickly/ usually before their breasts were bare.
And where on earth did you ever “learn” that women actually enjoy having our nipples “twisted?!!!
Do y’all like having your penises twisted???
I’m not talking people in the BDSM scene or who enjoy physical pain as opposed to titillating pleasure-
It’s called a “fetis” for a reason…

I’m talking the vast majority of us with breasts.
Porn is not real life, bruh.
99% of it is all about the male ejaculatory moment and visuals for men; the women fake their orgasms and those of us who have done porn will tell you while laughing at you that the industry doesn’t GAF what women and femmes really want or what feels good for us.
Oh, and I have a degree in a healthcare field too. And am a published author-contributor of a natural pregnancy and birth and breastfeeding book.

You can call me an expert all the way around when it comes to breasts…

Twist the tip of your penis hard until it causes sharp shooting pain up your urethra…
Are you one of the less than 3% of penis-having folks who prefer that over other ways to wake your arousal/get an erection?
That’s exactly the same thing.

And for the love of Medusa, who turned cisgender men to stone, please stop spreading damaging and inaccurate female anatomy and biology myths, ok?

I have those too. I don't know about the areolas but I know that men LOVE big nipples! Both my ex and my current husband adored them. but all these insecurities will go as you grow older. If someone doesn't like the way you look - f**k em! its their loss honestly.