Im in my late teens now, and ive been doing it since i was alot younger. When i first did it, the first few times felt great. Then i felt the guilt only for about a year or so more. But over time, that guilt just went away, and now i feel no guilt at all. However, one thing i noticed is that, around the time i stopped feeling guilty was around the time i got close with girls for the first time. I cant say for sure if there is a link. But, look into it.
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I have been going through the same thing. When Lent came along i decided i would give up masterbation. Giving it up made me feel better, but you know i had to go back to doing it. After I did it again i started feeling regret all over again. Now im going to try to give it up again. i think its a curse.
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I get the same thing, I'm a woman. I'm guessing your all men/boys? I just get to a point where I think. What am I doing? but while I'm doing it I think it's the best thing ever! I love porn and I look forward to my ME time, although I love having sex with my boyfriend I still like it on my own. I never used to feel like this when I was a teenager but since I turned about 20 I get it all the time. My parents were quite open minded and I've always been very positive about sex. I'm 26 now. Maybe it's hormones , I can't think what else it would be.
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you feel bad because God does not want you to pervert your mind and heart with porn and other degrading pictures and thoughts. please seek God and repent...my email is _[removed]_ if you want to know more..
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after masterbation you become flaccid and uninterested .. this is called the refractory . Most men experience a lag time between the ability to ejaculate consecutively, and this lag time varies among men. Age also affects the recovery time; younger men typically recover faster than older men. During this refractory period it is difficult or impossible to attain an erection, because the sympathetic nervous system counteracts the effects of the parasympathetic nervous system.
The refractory period varies widely among individuals and across species, ranging from minutes to days. An increased infusion of the hormone oxytocin during ejaculation is believed to be chiefly responsible for the refractory period and the amount by which oxytocin is increased may affect the length of each refractory period.
The refractory period varies widely among individuals and across species, ranging from minutes to days. An increased infusion of the hormone oxytocin during ejaculation is believed to be chiefly responsible for the refractory period and the amount by which oxytocin is increased may affect the length of each refractory period.
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Not only males feel guilty. Women do too.. I should know... I get a sick feeling. Guilty feeling. I thought I was the only one. Later I found out others felt it too.
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im trying to stop masterbating as well i can usually stop for about a week then i just end up doing it again i heard by tellling someone about it it can help you stop.
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i felt bad too after i masterbate then i looked to see if it was sinful and i got mixed ansewers but i thought is was best just to stop altogether which i found to be rather difficult.
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ahhh i guess it is a coping mechanism isnt it, i felt bad about something so i masturbated, felt great at the time but then felt really guilty especially since i had curbed my taste for this addiction. we all fall down i guess but i just fell flat on my face
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Ok, I going to make this simple for everyone, as there is no real answer here to fully explain what you are going through. Before you start masturbating or having sex with someone, you have a desire that you feel inside and you find yourself feeling even better as you keep feeding this desire. Your desire affects your mind, body, and spirit. Many people have a hard time understanding the spirit part. Your mind is the place where you hear you body talk (ex. Your hungry, in pain, tired, etc) even though your body feels it, you say to yourself “I’m hungry” , as well as the voices you have in your mind that allow you to reason and make decisions with desire like “ I want pizza and I will call delivery pizza now”. Desire comes from your spirit and talks to your mind, and you then decide to get pizza to fulfill your hunger. Most people think their mind creates the desire, but this is not so. You may or may have not noticed that you your desire in your upper body. This feeling grows in your upper body as you keep entertaining it with photos in your mind, taste, simulated thoughts and feelings and so on. Your spirit is in your upper body. When you feel bad after orgasm, it can be felt in your upper body from the bottom of your upper body (Genitals) to top of your upper body (neck). You will also notice any feelings that you have in your arms, legs or mind, started in your upper body first and traveled to your outer limbs or mind. Sometimes these feelings can stay in just one area of the upper body (ex. Genitals, stomach, chest, or combinations).
So the big question is, why is it good at first, then suddenly so bad at the end when the body has such a good feeling?
This is where you have to understand that the body still feels aroused, but an inner feeling makes you feel that this is wrong, and you feel the emotions of guilt, shame, disappointment, and depression. Your spirit is not affected by reactions in the brain or body, but the moral outcome of what is done. This same feeling comes from drug addicts, and they can tell you that the chase of getting the drug was more of a high but not in the body, and that was their spirit and its feelings. So when they do get high, their body and mind feel much more aroused, but they have feelings of guilt, shame, depression, and disappointment.
However there is a way to feel very good in your spirit when you do have an orgasm. Did you ever notice that you have some feelings fear, or poor self image or being called stupid or lame for walking an old senior across the street, but when you did you felt extremely good inside. It is almost a direct opposite sometimes. Then there are times that you intend to do a good deed and you feel good all the way through and feel a great rush at the end in your spirit.
Maybe now you can see where your spirit affects your entire being. The crazy part is that most people will never acknowledge their spirit. I’m trying to show you that it is real and how it works. Just start trying a good deed some time and see how it feels and all of the decisions your mind makes, and emotions that cross your mind. The real fact is that there is a God and Devil. There are angels and fallen angels. You happen to be on the only planet that God sent the devil to. I know what your saying, he is a nut, just had to take things to far. But I have experienced events that defy science and prove in a spiritual realm that does exist.
So you want to have the best SEX. You can have a super attractive mate and the best sex ever. The first principle you have to grasp is that the spirit needs to be involved. God wants you to have the best sex possible. Super orgasms and great spiritual and mind highs. But you need to be in good body, mental and spiritual health. Good health is from God and poor health is not of God.
1. Good body health will promote better body feelings. This means a good diet and exercise. We may not have the face of a model, but we can all have the body of one. All men and women do size up the body and desire the healthiest one. Sex will feel the best to your body when you are in good shape.
2. Your mind can guide your spirit and body. If you choose to go with thoughts that make sex perverted you will not be able to get a spirit high. It has to be a good path, just like helping the old lady across the street. You can do all kinds of positions that will lead to better body highs and orgasms, but there can come a point where sex is the object and not LOVE. Yup this is what you have to be centered on to get that super high. LOVE, and God is love. Not Lust. Lust starts a negative path that will feel good all the way up to your orgasm and then leave you feeling bad in your spirit that causes you to leave with a bad experience. You can lust in your marriage and never get a spiritual high. Gods rule for love is to be married, unless you’re stranded on an island and you become natural mates for life. And you have to truly love your mate. Share emotions, talk and learn to become one. Of course there is so much more, but I am trying to give you the principles.
3. When you have your mind and body in the best shape, you can also have poor or good health for your spirit. If you do love your mate and are in good health with loving intentions, you will get a good spiritual high. But if you learn to develop your spirit, you can have an amazing spiritual orgasm. So what’s the catch? Learn to develop your relationship with God. The Holy Bible is where it is at, and yes, Jesus is the way in. It may sound week or gay to someone who is not a believer, but do you get a great feeling in your upper body when you have an orgasm?
If you are single, you need to make sure you are in good shape, and don’t chase lust, it will only make you feel empty in the end. If you develop a true relationship with God through Jesus, and act on the voices your spirit gives you, God will open up the door to give you the best mate possible. But you do have to talk to that mate and learn to act by the spirit. The spirit realm is where the power is. The story’s in the Bible go against science all the time, and it is no wonder that there are science shows to try to explain this but remember from the SPIRIT.
So the big question is, why is it good at first, then suddenly so bad at the end when the body has such a good feeling?
This is where you have to understand that the body still feels aroused, but an inner feeling makes you feel that this is wrong, and you feel the emotions of guilt, shame, disappointment, and depression. Your spirit is not affected by reactions in the brain or body, but the moral outcome of what is done. This same feeling comes from drug addicts, and they can tell you that the chase of getting the drug was more of a high but not in the body, and that was their spirit and its feelings. So when they do get high, their body and mind feel much more aroused, but they have feelings of guilt, shame, depression, and disappointment.
However there is a way to feel very good in your spirit when you do have an orgasm. Did you ever notice that you have some feelings fear, or poor self image or being called stupid or lame for walking an old senior across the street, but when you did you felt extremely good inside. It is almost a direct opposite sometimes. Then there are times that you intend to do a good deed and you feel good all the way through and feel a great rush at the end in your spirit.
Maybe now you can see where your spirit affects your entire being. The crazy part is that most people will never acknowledge their spirit. I’m trying to show you that it is real and how it works. Just start trying a good deed some time and see how it feels and all of the decisions your mind makes, and emotions that cross your mind. The real fact is that there is a God and Devil. There are angels and fallen angels. You happen to be on the only planet that God sent the devil to. I know what your saying, he is a nut, just had to take things to far. But I have experienced events that defy science and prove in a spiritual realm that does exist.
So you want to have the best SEX. You can have a super attractive mate and the best sex ever. The first principle you have to grasp is that the spirit needs to be involved. God wants you to have the best sex possible. Super orgasms and great spiritual and mind highs. But you need to be in good body, mental and spiritual health. Good health is from God and poor health is not of God.
1. Good body health will promote better body feelings. This means a good diet and exercise. We may not have the face of a model, but we can all have the body of one. All men and women do size up the body and desire the healthiest one. Sex will feel the best to your body when you are in good shape.
2. Your mind can guide your spirit and body. If you choose to go with thoughts that make sex perverted you will not be able to get a spirit high. It has to be a good path, just like helping the old lady across the street. You can do all kinds of positions that will lead to better body highs and orgasms, but there can come a point where sex is the object and not LOVE. Yup this is what you have to be centered on to get that super high. LOVE, and God is love. Not Lust. Lust starts a negative path that will feel good all the way up to your orgasm and then leave you feeling bad in your spirit that causes you to leave with a bad experience. You can lust in your marriage and never get a spiritual high. Gods rule for love is to be married, unless you’re stranded on an island and you become natural mates for life. And you have to truly love your mate. Share emotions, talk and learn to become one. Of course there is so much more, but I am trying to give you the principles.
3. When you have your mind and body in the best shape, you can also have poor or good health for your spirit. If you do love your mate and are in good health with loving intentions, you will get a good spiritual high. But if you learn to develop your spirit, you can have an amazing spiritual orgasm. So what’s the catch? Learn to develop your relationship with God. The Holy Bible is where it is at, and yes, Jesus is the way in. It may sound week or gay to someone who is not a believer, but do you get a great feeling in your upper body when you have an orgasm?
If you are single, you need to make sure you are in good shape, and don’t chase lust, it will only make you feel empty in the end. If you develop a true relationship with God through Jesus, and act on the voices your spirit gives you, God will open up the door to give you the best mate possible. But you do have to talk to that mate and learn to act by the spirit. The spirit realm is where the power is. The story’s in the Bible go against science all the time, and it is no wonder that there are science shows to try to explain this but remember from the SPIRIT.
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It's simple. when i was younger, i did wank a lot..and i mean a lot. the reason why i felt so bad was that everybody had high expectations of me in the sense that i should have been pro active in the dating scene...sexual conquest is in every man's needs. why do u think alpha males in all mammal species fight to the death just to get to the puntang. sex doesnt just let you pass on your genes but is mainly a job for the alpha male(mammals). so wen you jack off, u feel guilty coz you know you should be out being a dominant male and passing on yo genes but yet here you are tryin to impregnate yo hand( tell me how that works out)...basically its your body telling you to go out there and fight harder to be dominant for survival..so wen yo girl gives u a hand shandy or bj u dont feel guilty cos u hav exercised yo power as a man. dont get me wrong it is utterly wrong to be abusive to ladies for those that might think m encouraging that so dont be a fool...what i mean is be confident when you are out there with women, stand up for them when they need you to n stand up for yoself. basically be a real man(watever that means). so instead of trying to understand what it is that makes you get all these weird feelings after a wank, understand why these feelings are there in the first place. i hope this will be helpfull to all u all that never had the birds ad da bees talk wid yo dads...mind u m 24 so i hv head a lot bout da topic...
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scip a dayor two then do it with some -glide- and get some rest me thinks you need rest.....all will be well spring is comming and so will you feel good........:-):-):-)
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I'm a christian female who concerns with my strong sexuality. I was trying to find out the reasons of my feelings...why I'm feeling this, not my mother and other my friends from my background???
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It made me to have too much worries,... and I got sickness such as schizophrenic feelings... had enough depression since 2004...(as I had a man I loved but I didn't date or have sex with him... He followed me,...He was a mental practitioner...we met as teacher and student in a class... It was all confusing...really.. I liked him...but I felt too anxious...as I felt that I might just spend a night with him, sleeping with him straight away.......that was the reasons why I couldn't have any relationships with males so far... I became very isolated and stopped going out at night when darkness is starting to arrive...because this guy chased after me...with urgent needs to meet me or care me or sex with me? I don't know what was in his mind really... His mother was a priest in Catholic church...I had a dream about nuns' curse on my life in 20's...became worse and worse...my life indeed started to get cursed more and more...severer and severer... I just felt so so upset...and cried... and depressed...cried...cried whenevr I study about my relationship, life matters,. etc as that was my majoy (not going to mention of my major..cause you can guess what it is indeed...). I felt too sick...even had medications for treatment... and couldn't study any more because I just couldn't.... got really strange feelings...
you know what????
I really prayed hard not masterbating myself for 2 years... reading bible all the time,...not going out at night...I tried my best to make me holy... .... .. .. trying to listen to God's voices...as all the churchs in the world is trying to do...
but it didn't work...
I got severely ill mentally... and couldn't have a relationship with anyone in the world...
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now I tried to balance... I pray,...etc...
But the remedy is perhaps 1.pray+2. meeting good friends whom you can open up your mind and feel listened (really straight up friends!!! females was good for me...^^I love my friends from outside of church...as they listened me more and opened up and showed what the hell is going on inside of their life as well as minds.. they were more seriously genuiner than church leaders and people...unfortunately...I was born as a christian female..but I felt it was too too hard for me...just living was a difficult matter or issue for me... It was so severely distressful time.... I know that it will be very hard for me to control all of this mental illness, building up secure feelings with people, children, judgemental church leaders and people (who are very weak at really concerning for one another.............)/....I often feel that I want to ruin myself as worse as possible... I feel good about the thought... which is very disturbing my minds,..and shake up my minds.. I love my frineds... but I don't know why I feel so so lonely... ... ... I feel destressfull.... I study psychology myself...and never been able to have a physical relationship with my male friends whom I have loved.... ... .. I don't want to kill myself today. ... I know that I'm bit controlled or attacked by Satan's spirit now...as Satan wants to use me as a tool destroying myself....putting me down, making me to have a low self esteem as much as possible satan can do against me...,
I'll resist to do it now on...because I know that my friend God (who never betrayed me) want me to know how to handle all of these...
I wish to know how to fight with this problem.......rather than trying to live with gypsy mind... Satan is very strange...because it is very attractive...making me sick, unhappy, depressing, destressful,...and making me to have more beautiful look, being very distressful, angry as a young female, depressing,losing my weight,....Satan won over me for few years. I'll not ruin my life any more because it won't help me out anymore...
I wish to have you guys prayer to fix me and my man's life problem...he and I couldn't love since 2003...he always followed me day and night... I felt observed..felt sick and happy and sick and happy and sick and neglected. I don't want to be ruined by any more men in life.. i'm only 27 and beautiful woman... but I can't relate with people whoever they are...
I want to know whether I can live like this or perhaps live much better and better... I think that I will need to use powerful positive talks over me...rather than making me to use so strong negative talks over me furthermore....
I don't know who likes me... A man is wanting to have a relationship with me... but I feel that he will perhaps not be the one who will satisfy me sexually... It made me worry...
I'm not a slave of sex...
Please God forgive me.... I wish to live good for you
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It made me to have too much worries,... and I got sickness such as schizophrenic feelings... had enough depression since 2004...(as I had a man I loved but I didn't date or have sex with him... He followed me,...He was a mental practitioner...we met as teacher and student in a class... It was all confusing...really.. I liked him...but I felt too anxious...as I felt that I might just spend a night with him, sleeping with him straight away.......that was the reasons why I couldn't have any relationships with males so far... I became very isolated and stopped going out at night when darkness is starting to arrive...because this guy chased after me...with urgent needs to meet me or care me or sex with me? I don't know what was in his mind really... His mother was a priest in Catholic church...I had a dream about nuns' curse on my life in 20's...became worse and worse...my life indeed started to get cursed more and more...severer and severer... I just felt so so upset...and cried... and depressed...cried...cried whenevr I study about my relationship, life matters,. etc as that was my majoy (not going to mention of my major..cause you can guess what it is indeed...). I felt too sick...even had medications for treatment... and couldn't study any more because I just couldn't.... got really strange feelings...
you know what????
I really prayed hard not masterbating myself for 2 years... reading bible all the time,...not going out at night...I tried my best to make me holy... .... .. .. trying to listen to God's voices...as all the churchs in the world is trying to do...
but it didn't work...
I got severely ill mentally... and couldn't have a relationship with anyone in the world...
...................
now I tried to balance... I pray,...etc...
But the remedy is perhaps 1.pray+2. meeting good friends whom you can open up your mind and feel listened (really straight up friends!!! females was good for me...^^I love my friends from outside of church...as they listened me more and opened up and showed what the hell is going on inside of their life as well as minds.. they were more seriously genuiner than church leaders and people...unfortunately...I was born as a christian female..but I felt it was too too hard for me...just living was a difficult matter or issue for me... It was so severely distressful time.... I know that it will be very hard for me to control all of this mental illness, building up secure feelings with people, children, judgemental church leaders and people (who are very weak at really concerning for one another.............)/....I often feel that I want to ruin myself as worse as possible... I feel good about the thought... which is very disturbing my minds,..and shake up my minds.. I love my frineds... but I don't know why I feel so so lonely... ... ... I feel destressfull.... I study psychology myself...and never been able to have a physical relationship with my male friends whom I have loved.... ... .. I don't want to kill myself today. ... I know that I'm bit controlled or attacked by Satan's spirit now...as Satan wants to use me as a tool destroying myself....putting me down, making me to have a low self esteem as much as possible satan can do against me...,
I'll resist to do it now on...because I know that my friend God (who never betrayed me) want me to know how to handle all of these...
I wish to know how to fight with this problem.......rather than trying to live with gypsy mind... Satan is very strange...because it is very attractive...making me sick, unhappy, depressing, destressful,...and making me to have more beautiful look, being very distressful, angry as a young female, depressing,losing my weight,....Satan won over me for few years. I'll not ruin my life any more because it won't help me out anymore...
I wish to have you guys prayer to fix me and my man's life problem...he and I couldn't love since 2003...he always followed me day and night... I felt observed..felt sick and happy and sick and happy and sick and neglected. I don't want to be ruined by any more men in life.. i'm only 27 and beautiful woman... but I can't relate with people whoever they are...
I want to know whether I can live like this or perhaps live much better and better... I think that I will need to use powerful positive talks over me...rather than making me to use so strong negative talks over me furthermore....
I don't know who likes me... A man is wanting to have a relationship with me... but I feel that he will perhaps not be the one who will satisfy me sexually... It made me worry...
I'm not a slave of sex...
Please God forgive me.... I wish to live good for you
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I started when i was like 7 years old, i felt guilty about it to, and tried to stop. But then i found out that it was totally fine, I try to do it once a day :-D .
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