Umm... Hi. I am 15 years old and my boyfriend wants to do anel sex with me. I am really worried because I heard that it will hurt if we do have it, but I already told him I would do it. Can anyone tell me what to expect and what to do to have those so called explosive orgasms that I've been hearing about? I really don't want to feel any pain and I am really scared of doing this. So, please help!!
First of all, if you're worried about it or aren't 100% sure you want to do it then you shouldn't. Don't let your boyfriend make you do anything you don't want to do or aren't ready for yet. I promise you, if you aren't 100% relaxed for anal sex it WILL hurt and he might not even be able to get himself inside you. It's very tight so you have to go very slow and use a LOT of lubrication. Best of luck.
Thank you. Is lubrication really going to help to have no pain?
KittyKittyMeowMeow wrote:
it will help alot but there will always be a lil pain but after a few mins i think u wont even think about the pain any more lolagent10ve wrote:
First of all, if you're worried about it or aren't 100% sure you want to do it then you shouldn't. Don't let your boyfriend make you do anything you don't want to do or aren't ready for yet. I promise you, if you aren't 100% relaxed for anal sex it WILL hurt and he might not even be able to get himself inside you. It's very tight so you have to go very slow and use a LOT of lubrication. Best of luck.
Thank you. Is lubrication really going to help to have no pain?
Since the anus doesn't make lubrication it will help a LOT to make things go more smoothly. I've tried it without a lot of lube and with a lot of lube and with made it a lot better. Also make sure you are very turned on and relaxed (like I said) because your muscles will loosen up a lot.
Thank you.
i wont lie to you all i was very young when i first had it and im still not sure if it was me being molested ,, but it was very exciting to me and i enjoyed it totaly ,,,
it was with a man, and yes i dont think im gay because i truely love women but the act of anel sex is increadibal to me and sadly to say guys know what to do when doing it..... so yes i have anel sex with men ,,, say what ya want call me gay but i am happly marryed to a beautiful woman that takes my breath away but even she cant do what a pienis dose ,,,, i have three beautifull girls 18,15, and my youngest at 9 and i do know for sure the older two have had it because the tell there mother everything ,,,,, i cant condem what i love so much but i can only say be safe when doing it and trust the one you let ,,,,,,,,,,,
it was with a man, and yes i dont think im gay because i truely love women but the act of anel sex is increadibal to me and sadly to say guys know what to do when doing it..... so yes i have anel sex with men ,,, say what ya want call me gay but i am happly marryed to a beautiful woman that takes my breath away but even she cant do what a pienis dose ,,,, i have three beautifull girls 18,15, and my youngest at 9 and i do know for sure the older two have had it because the tell there mother everything ,,,,, i cant condem what i love so much but i can only say be safe when doing it and trust the one you let ,,,,,,,,,,,
my opinion your too young to be doin stuff, im 17 n you should wait. i was with my man 3 years before i let him do anything n if he tryed to do something i didnt feel ready for i told him n he respected my boundrys because i made him wait. but ill tell you back door sex does hurt especially cause youre young its a lot smaller than an adults... i was young when i tryed the first time n i didnt try it again for a couple years n it was a little easier. but its going to hurt anyway cause youre age n it being the first time... please wait you should save yourself for when you can handle the responsibilitys sex comes with n always use protection condoms AND birth control, yes you can get pregnant with anel sex too. the semon comes out n can get in your other hole. just make sure hes very gental with you.