Okay . . . I'm not good looking and I'm reeeaaally self conscious about my body mainly because i have a lot of body hair which for a 15 year old girl is not good. The hair is blond but it's really obvious and horrible. I bought a bikini but im too embarassed to wear it, if i can't even wear a bikini how will i cope being intimate with someone?! I'm just really worried about becoming intimate with someone because i don't feel good enough for anyone and how could they find me an my body attractive when i cant look in the mirror without grimacing?! Oh dear i'm in a bit of a mess :-( It doesn't help when everywhere i look there are beautiful people. Do you think i could just find a guy who finds body hair on a girl attractive . . .do they even exist? Or should i try and get rid of it - but without spending loads of money is it possible? The thing is, even then I don't think i would be good enough . . . if i found a guy i liked, i wouldn't want him to like me because i would think he deserved better than to be with me - ?! I need help :[
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hi my names kerri and i hope what i say can help you.
i have polycystic ovarian syndrome which is otherwise known as PCOS. I have been overweight my whole life and what PCOS has given me is unwanted body hair on my face. Dark, thick hair. Even though i have had over 25 laser treatments it has never gone away. It has made the hair thinner, but now ive been left with hairs that i bleach.
I am 18 years old and for three years of my teenage life ive struggled with have facial hair and my condition. i never ever thought in my life i would be able to find someone who loves me for having chub and having some what of a "beard". (im not a hideous person, lol but i have my flaws).
ive been dating my boyfriend for 9 motnhs but its more like 2 years because weve always had a thing for each other. When i first started dating him i never thought he'd be comfortable with my body and the fact i have flaws. To my surprised i ended up with the best person ever made for me. He is attracted to girls on the larger side and absolutely loves every part of my body. SOMETHING UNIMAGINABLE TO ME! and he looks past the fact that my PCOS has given me unwanted hair and that someday i might have trouble having children. hes look pasted my stretch marks and every other part of me he actually loves.
Im not saying youll find someone like this exactly... but some day when youre ready and when you find someone who looks past the beauty flaws you will know it. Youll be comfortable with them. and comfortable to let them into the word of "ugly" you think you have.
it might be a long time or maybe not.. but it takes time and trust and love.
I hope to you that you find what i did. :)
best of luck.
kerri
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i have polycystic ovarian syndrome which is otherwise known as PCOS. I have been overweight my whole life and what PCOS has given me is unwanted body hair on my face. Dark, thick hair. Even though i have had over 25 laser treatments it has never gone away. It has made the hair thinner, but now ive been left with hairs that i bleach.
I am 18 years old and for three years of my teenage life ive struggled with have facial hair and my condition. i never ever thought in my life i would be able to find someone who loves me for having chub and having some what of a "beard". (im not a hideous person, lol but i have my flaws).
ive been dating my boyfriend for 9 motnhs but its more like 2 years because weve always had a thing for each other. When i first started dating him i never thought he'd be comfortable with my body and the fact i have flaws. To my surprised i ended up with the best person ever made for me. He is attracted to girls on the larger side and absolutely loves every part of my body. SOMETHING UNIMAGINABLE TO ME! and he looks past the fact that my PCOS has given me unwanted hair and that someday i might have trouble having children. hes look pasted my stretch marks and every other part of me he actually loves.
Im not saying youll find someone like this exactly... but some day when youre ready and when you find someone who looks past the beauty flaws you will know it. Youll be comfortable with them. and comfortable to let them into the word of "ugly" you think you have.
it might be a long time or maybe not.. but it takes time and trust and love.
I hope to you that you find what i did. :)
best of luck.
kerri
***edited by moderator*** web addresses not allowed
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