You may find as he starts to develope more and gain pubic hair he might be a little more shy about letting you see him naked but that's also natural, have you had a talk with him yet about his curiosity about girls and other boys even though that's how most of us older generation learnt through experiment lol, the wetness that you say he has between his foreskin and glands could be from urine if he doesn't pull his foreskin back to pee seeing as it's extra long, that maybe something worth teaching him if he doesn't already do it and to also keep his foreskin retracted when he baths and showers and after to let the foreskin and glands to air dry another tip I was given when growing up was to massage baby oil into my foreskin daily that way it will remain supple as the penis grows and stretch easy.
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Girls are also curious about this age group of boys and look forward to exploring of the boy's genitals. Girls at school take serious interest in what they can also see what going on in boys' pants.
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Have you talked to him about the sex playgirls like to do with boys his age? Let him know his female friend, and he can completely relax in foreplay with each other, but it has to be in safe places like her home or his home. We are not talking about intercourse, but that can happen. We are talking about touching, oral sex. An erection business becomes a severe interest to girls and how the smen and sperm come out of the boy. I glad he is very open to you with this. To be sure that no others are involved in this unless he what them involved. You do not tell us if he has a sister and her age.
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This is the openness all children should have with their children. When brother and sister can be open in front of each other with their parents about body information builds a strong bonding of love and caring.
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yes that happens its normal I was very big as a boy. my penis did hurt because I developed early and I eventually around 11-12 started leaking or small ejaculations of pre cum no sperm yet. but it was basically blue balls needing to ejaculate from being turned on a lot. I did not know how my friend helped.
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When I was 11 I had the same height and physical appearance of your son. My penis was 4.3 inches flaccid and 5.5 erected. I was circumcised. My glans was very thick. I had the typical so-called "mushroom" penis. I had permanent erections just by the touch of my glans with my underpants/jeans. I had no pubic hair until I was 14, when I had my first ejaculation too.
Since I was 11 my erections were strong and sometimes painful. My glans oozed precum. My mother understood that those spots in my briefs were not urine but precum or similar to real semen. I really needed to masturbate 3 times per day.
At that age I just had "dry orgasms". My glans was already lubricated with precum so I liked to use my finger “brushing” slowly my penis-head until I finally reached climax. My mother knew I was masturbating and she never forbade me. In the weekends, several 11-12 yr old boys used to come home for sleepovers. At that age, "sex games" were something natural. We were just pre-teen boys with no pubes. So those concepts of “sex", or “gay" were not in our brains at that age. We were simply having fun together. Mutual oral favors (“69”) were something very common. We shared plenty of dry orgasms before going to sleep. My mother could perfectly hear those moans in my bedroom. But she never said a word. She kindly let me discover by myself these basic areas in life, like descovering your own body.
Hope this helps you with your son.
But, yes it’s absolutely true. When you are an 11 yr old boy and you are “well endowed” as I was, like your son, it can be painful. Your “Vienna sausage" resting inside your jeans can be OK when it is totally flaccid. But a hard-on changes everything!
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Hey, my son is 10 years old and he has similar „problem”. In his instance it results in his sense of being different. I am really concerned and I want to know how next years will look like for him. As your boy is 2 years older and you are more experienced could you contact me and answer several questions?
Jane
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There nothing wrong with a mother, and father knows how their son or daughter genitals look like and what size they are. A mother having a caring love relationship with her son in what he does, and his body is very healthy. It very important that the mother set an open stage with her son in being the support of him in all areas of his life. That includes his genitals in what size or shape it is or in his sexual needs, and that the mother sees that her son's needs are met. If more parents were involved more in their child sexuality and their genitals that preteens and teenagers would not go where they should not go. The mother must see that her son has time and a safe place for him to exploring his genitals and masturbation. It is her job to keep him safe from other females who try to step into his space, unwilling. She needs to be the door guard to his bedroom or bathroom. Only those who he what to be involved in his circle. It is very reasonable and healthy for a mother to take a serious interest in her son's genitals.
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Your son is just going to be "well hung" when he gets into his later teen and adult years. He is uncomfortable now because he does not seem "normal". Pre-teens and younger teens have a great need to feel normal and therefore accepted by their peers. Good counselling now is important so that he knows his awkwardness will pass soon enough and he will have a life full of pride in himself and his "assets". Other men will only feel inferior and envious of a condition they can only dream about!
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Normal? There is no such thing when going through puberty simply because everyone develops at different stages and at different rates, just because his penis looks larger than most other boys probably just because he has a long foreskin an nothing more doesn't mean he is going to be well hung as you put it!
Why does he need counselling over it, thats what parenting is all about to care for them not sending them to someone else to deal with!
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Your sons erections being painful might be due to phimosis if he is not circumcised. Take him to a doctor to see if that's the case. The doctor can fully circumcise him. But he can be partially cicumcised so he can retract the remaining foreskin over the head of his penis. Just remember. A male gets most of his sexual pleasure from his foreskin. So keep as much intact as possible. He will appreciate that you didn't allow a full circumcision.
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Absolutely do not listen to this! Genital cutting should only ever be a last resort. He doesn’t need partial anything.
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