11 years old son has an unusually long penis, normal?

Hi, See I am also having a bit too long penis when I'm 11, and I'm Indian. It is rare for such penis to grow that much long.

What is wrong with you?!

You should be repeatedly looking at or touching (I assume you touch it in order to do your precise measurements) your son's penis. Especially his erect penis.You will make him even more self conscious and nervous. 

By all means, take him to a doctor but it should be to one who specializes in genital abnormalities.

Consider getting some looser fitting clothes for him including looser fitting underwear like boxer shorts. There are even some made with separate compartments for man/boy parts. I have had to try them and have found the m very comfortable, and yes I am big! Bigger than your son by more than a couple of inched. However, I am an adult and have learned to accept myself as I am.

Hopefully, your son's situation will improve as the rest of his body will grow and catch up. Give him a chance to adjust, adapt and accept his situation.

If you can't relax your obsession with your son's penis and erections, perhaps you should consider seeing a therapist because you focus of your attention on your son's penis might be rooted deep in your hidden thoughts.

Why do you care?

I assume the second word of the second line is an error (missing "n't").
Please note the dates of the early replies. By now, her 11 year old is a 15 year old, and is all but fully grown down there. So, any comments should be viewed as being for the education of anyone facing a similar situation today. Your news of the existence or underware for the unusually large, and your users comfort review are useful. I hope the issue of painful erections has gone away, since even if your underware and outer pants allows it, he can't go walking around with a 6" tent in his pants (or 8" or 10" or 12" now, since he was so long when he had just turned 11).
My "now that I've thought about it for a while" reaction to the boy's description is, "That long and that thin, I've got to see this before I take it too seriously." (Yes. I know photos aren't allowed at this site, but I'd probably want to see it "in the flesh" anyway to get around the possibility of "photo-shop" tricks.)

How you'd find out

He is normal. He has a large penis for an 11 yo, It may get bigger or it may already full size; time will tell. His testicles will probably drop soon.

I just wanted to defend the mother in this case. I am the father of 4 kids, 2 of which have always had penises much bigger than average.
I myself have a 7.5x6 penis so having well endowed sons was somewhat expected but I’m gonna be honest, I wasn’t expecting quite how big they’d be. Basically from when they were babies their manhoods always looked abnormally large. Especially at the age it was impossible to ignore it. Then, at age 12, the eldest grew very big (I’d estimate around 5.5 inches long when soft and fairly thick. Myself and my wife did notice this and discuss it. This was not in a sexual way but purely because we cared about him and wanted to make sure he was confident and happy. Thankfully, we had always been fairly open about things so he was happy to discuss the embarrassment he felt at the time. We told him that it was a gift he had been given and that he didn’t need to worry about being different. When he was about 14, his 12 year-old brother’s penis also became big so this helped them both feel more confident. Now they are 18 and 16 respectively and both over 8 inches from their reports, well bigger than me haha. I genuinely believe the attention myself and my wife paid to them, helped them better accept the endowments they were given and for that I will not apologise.

A few observations; Your wife's side of the family must be contributing some big penis genes too. Otherwise I would expect your sons to be a little smaller than dad rather than bigger. By the way, the other 2 children, boys or girls?
Things must have changed since I was that age. Half a century ago, if there was no such thing as too big for a penis. I never saw one, and I never heard anyone else say that some poor guy had too big a penis. The guy with the biggest penis was envied by the rest. The only way that would backfire on a guy was if he came across as thinking his big penis made him superior to the regular guys. The things that made a guy feel shame when the other guys saw his penis, were being too small, being hairless and getting an erection when he was with other naked guys.
Is this thinking a product of these politically correct times that a boy/young man would feel shame about his large penis. Is this related to the 16 year old who doesn't care if he ever gets a driver's license or a car. Half a century ago, the availability of a car and the ability to drive it was about the biggest step up to adulthood you could take. A guy/girl who didn't think that was just thought to be odd/weird.

There is too much in this one that leaves me saying, "Ah, what?? I bet English isn't the writer's first language, but even allowing for that, this one doesn't make a lot of sense to me."

I am a 72 year old man. I wish I had that penis. a

I use to sleepover and we always played with each other's penis.

Mom you need to back off. He’s too old for you to be examining his penis. If he’s got a big one then kudos to him but that’s really none of your concern. as far as playing with himself - it’s his and he do it if he wants to. You don’t need to observe. And you don’t need to be measuring it either.

Yeah you must be right about my wife's genes. The other two are girls. You're right, shame might not be the right word but its more just the attention it garners, especially when you're big at a really young age. Thanks for your comment.

As a 72 year old man with a small penis, I wish him the best.

You make no mention of problems as your boys were growing up. That's good! If I had one or more son with this issue, I wouldn't want them to come to the attention of child molesters, but I also wouldn't want to take their innocence away at too young an age by talking about child molesters. My solution would be tight underware and loose outer pants. The first to guard against erections showing. The second to keep him showing a big bulge in his pants.
Today, at 18+ & 16+, they are old enough that they will have to decide how to deal with other's reactions to their "biggest one in the locker room" size.