im 16 and when i masturbate im only hard for a short period of time then i go soft and am unable to ejaculate ... also i am circumsized wen im with my girlfriend she cannot make me cum with oral or physichal stimulation ... when we go to have intercoarse when attempt to put on a condom i go soft and am not able to regain erection ... and the condom is not to small considering i use trojan magnums ... my gf wants to have sex but my penis wont cooperate help!!
have you thought that this might be a medical problem???
because if it is, the you need to go to the doctor and ask. It is up tp you if you want to tell him that your wanting to experiance sex, but theres a chance that he will tell your parent. so just go and tell him that when you are trying to get erected your penis goes soft. and then he might be able to hep you out. and let me know if everything is alright.
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because if it is, the you need to go to the doctor and ask. It is up tp you if you want to tell him that your wanting to experiance sex, but theres a chance that he will tell your parent. so just go and tell him that when you are trying to get erected your penis goes soft. and then he might be able to hep you out. and let me know if everything is alright.
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Hi,
She probably can't make you orgasm because she's just not getting the right technique down, so don't worry about that. Secondly, you're most likely experiencing performance anxiety.. I just posted something in the sexual disfunction category about my experience in overcoming it. Maybe it could help you .. who knows!
The probability you have some sort of medical problem is low though.. you're probably just putting too much pressure on yourself to be stellar in bed..
She probably can't make you orgasm because she's just not getting the right technique down, so don't worry about that. Secondly, you're most likely experiencing performance anxiety.. I just posted something in the sexual disfunction category about my experience in overcoming it. Maybe it could help you .. who knows!
The probability you have some sort of medical problem is low though.. you're probably just putting too much pressure on yourself to be stellar in bed..
I agree, you really don't need to have any pressure, that will just make things more difficult.
Can you give us a link to that discussion? I would like to read your post.
thanks.
Can you give us a link to that discussion? I would like to read your post.
thanks.
Hi everybody,
You are still in your puberty and this can only be temporary thing. It is important not to stress about these things. If you are to nervous that will not help you in any way.
kmb_man, why do you think that this can be a medical issue? If you have some information feel free to share.
You are still in your puberty and this can only be temporary thing. It is important not to stress about these things. If you are to nervous that will not help you in any way.
kmb_man, why do you think that this can be a medical issue? If you have some information feel free to share.