Good evening
I'm 16 years old. About 2 weeks ago, I tried to have sex with my gf (1st time in my life). I failed in every single try! I noticed I didn't have full erection, in order to prevent me from having sex... Also I noticed that I needed some kind of help (hand job etc). The least times I had erection (not full) without her "help". I wonder If this happens due to the fact that I masturbate many times. Also, I masturbate while watching sexual content films (sometimes hardcore). I'd also like to add that sometimes (when I wanna masturbate) I don't have erection only by watching the film. I do have when I touch my penis. What's more, (when I have "semi-full" erection), I'm unable to enter her vagina (not because of the erection; I didn't have experience) and as a result, I lose my erection. I hope you understand my problem. Thank you in advance
I'm 16 years old. About 2 weeks ago, I tried to have sex with my gf (1st time in my life). I failed in every single try! I noticed I didn't have full erection, in order to prevent me from having sex... Also I noticed that I needed some kind of help (hand job etc). The least times I had erection (not full) without her "help". I wonder If this happens due to the fact that I masturbate many times. Also, I masturbate while watching sexual content films (sometimes hardcore). I'd also like to add that sometimes (when I wanna masturbate) I don't have erection only by watching the film. I do have when I touch my penis. What's more, (when I have "semi-full" erection), I'm unable to enter her vagina (not because of the erection; I didn't have experience) and as a result, I lose my erection. I hope you understand my problem. Thank you in advance
Have you tried foreplay? It really helps to take a slow pace. especially if it's your first sexual encounter.
Could you be more specific? But, how do you explain the problem with masturbation? Are they linked?? Thnks
It seems to me that you need to find your G-spot. Ask your girlfriend to do something that you find really sexy so that she turns you on and eventually leads you into FULL erection.
I doubt that this has to do with you masturbating a lot. Sometimes, a person might not be physically attracted to the person he/she is having sex with. Can this be a reason?
As for the Need to touch the penis in order to have an erection, this means that you're more of a narcissist, or simply you're a guy who doesn't get turned on that fast. It might also be a phase you're going through where you are on a low-sex-drive.
My Advice is: Try to extend the foreplay, don't move to intercourse fast enough. Try having sex in the shower, use dirty language, mouthing, ...etc
BE CREATIVE! And make sure your needs and hers are met, then after all the foreplay, move to the intercourse. I hope it works well ;-)
I doubt that this has to do with you masturbating a lot. Sometimes, a person might not be physically attracted to the person he/she is having sex with. Can this be a reason?
As for the Need to touch the penis in order to have an erection, this means that you're more of a narcissist, or simply you're a guy who doesn't get turned on that fast. It might also be a phase you're going through where you are on a low-sex-drive.
My Advice is: Try to extend the foreplay, don't move to intercourse fast enough. Try having sex in the shower, use dirty language, mouthing, ...etc
BE CREATIVE! And make sure your needs and hers are met, then after all the foreplay, move to the intercourse. I hope it works well ;-)
It really helped me! I could say that (not fully sure) that in some ways you are right. Ok... Let's say that I deal with the problems regarding "my G SPOT" (mouthing etc...). What can I do about the problem of narcissim , If it does exist? Thank you for one more time! :-)
It was really helpful. I've got to say that in some way you were right. OK... Let's say that I deal with my ''G spot'' problems (find my way to rise up). What can I do to overcome the problem of narcissim, If that does exist? How can I find out that it exists? Thank you for one more time! :-)
Sometimes when you are doing this First time these things can happen.
There can be many reasons for this,it night be a psychological isues, may be because of nervousness...
There can be many reasons for this,it night be a psychological isues, may be because of nervousness...