I posted recently about childhood sex exploration. I am still confused and know I just need to move on. My question is what happens if one of my friends feels differently about our play now 20 years later? I am almost positive it was mutual, innocent play as u can see from my prev post, just can't seem to shake the guilt. Can I be arrested 20 years later? Should I talk to these friends? Help!!!
Hi, from what I have read in your last post, this was thoroughly discussed and everyone reassured you that this was completely normal and was not illegal.
if you are still having problems with this issue then I suggest that you consider speaking with a professional / therapist - there must be some other reason why you are having such problems dealing with what has happened and why this has come to a head now.
Ultimately regardless of what anyone on here says I dont think that you are going to feel much better - demonstrated by the fact you are posting again on the same subject.
hope you resolve this issue soon
if you are still having problems with this issue then I suggest that you consider speaking with a professional / therapist - there must be some other reason why you are having such problems dealing with what has happened and why this has come to a head now.
Ultimately regardless of what anyone on here says I dont think that you are going to feel much better - demonstrated by the fact you are posting again on the same subject.
hope you resolve this issue soon
Hi, thanks for the input. I am seriously thinking about seeing someone, but am trying just to get past it. I think the problem is I was raised as a "good, Catholic girl". So, you can see where the anxiety over this comes from. I am realizing this is a natural part of life, I just look at my own daughter and it scares me. I wish I was close enough to these friends still to talk to them, however I am not. We are more acquaintances because our families have known each other most of our lives. We are all young women with families and jobs and all seem to be very happy from what I know. I know in time I will get past this. I really appreciate any stories anyone can share to make me feel a little less alone. Also, has anyone told their spouses? I have debated, but am afraid he may think I am crazy. Thanks for the help.