3 weeks pregnant, my stomach is hard is that possible??

ok well first of all i dont whant yall to say well thts stupid bc i jst came here to get an anwser not to be criticized.
well anyways me and my bf, had sex the 8 of december and well we didnt really use protection..
he sayd he did felt lke his sperm came out.. bt lately i been feeling dizzy and tired. my breast hurt and my stomach feels hard and then it feels normal.. bt idnt really kno. also all of a sudden my stomach hurts.. from the bottom..
sometimes i feel lke throwing up.. bt i dnt.. and could it be possible to be pregnant ?
my last period was nov. 21 ..also when i poke my stomach to hard it hurts... and i been eating more than usual .. and needing to pee more too.. idk i need some answers so plz help...

im on birth control the depo vera shot i think im pregnant now because i been tired , irritable throwing up my favorite food and i caught a yeast infection but my stomache is hard and pokes out when im walking or standing and it gives me back pain im always hungry while on the shot me and my boyfriend always have unprotected sex and i let him come in me all the time we have sex mostly 4 days a week do u think im pregnant why isnt my stomache gettin hard please im confused my boyfriend says i changed nd its hard to tell if i am pregnant because i am on depo nd i dnt have periods :?

anonymous wrote:

To Guest who is 18 and thinks she is pregnant:

First off, what are you thinking having sex when you are 18, are you really ready to be a mother because it definately doesn't sound like it!
Second, if you are dumb enough to have sex, and especially unprotected sex, you better realize that yes, you will probably get pregnant, that is the way it works!
Third, if you do become pregnant, you need to stick it out for the baby and if you don't want it, ADOPTION, there is plently of people out there not lucky enough to have kids of there own and would love to take care of your mistake!

Wow some people can be so damn rude...who are you to be telling this girl she is dumb...big whoop she had sex at 18 WAY better than 14 like most girls or even younger! and you know what i BELIEVE IN ABORTION if it is the right thing to do...if that child is going to have a horrible life then there is no reason to bring them into this world because you know what it is a VERY hard thing to give your child up for adoption... I really cant Fu**ing stand people like you...preaching to people about the way they should live their life but im sure at 18 you were having sex and yes it is really stupid to be having unprotected sex but it is her life everyone knows the consequences of having sex but who really thinks about that when your young...why dont you try minding your own GOD DAMN business and stop preaching to young women about how dumb they are for having sex...kinda makes you look like an id**t...

For everyone that is preaching and criticizing those who are writing on the site for for advice; it is completely unnecessary. This is not a site to make bold statements and impose your opinions on others. These women are here asking for advice, not your two cents. Regardless of what women should and shouldn't do, every individual's experience is subjective and everyone is entitled to making their own decisions. Telling anyone not to have sex is only being obtrusive for the sake of being obtrusive and does not do anyone any good. Sexuality is a natural human instinct and part of life. Some develop earlier than others and have the unintentional urges that have been evolutionarily developed in our species for reasons in which we have had no control over. Additionally, there is a reason why 18 years old is the legal age of an adult. It is the age where people are to be trusted to make their own free decisions.

Instead of condescending insults accusing others of not being "real" women. I would really like to know how or where all of you received the authority in determining what constitutes being a woman? Mind your own business everyone. You may want to rebuttal that these women asked for a response. Well, they certainly did, but advice not your opinion.

Some knowledge on how to have safe sex is helpful, and in today's age everyone should know now that telling young women not to have sex only makes them want to do it more. It's called reactance or a "boomerang" effect.

So now that I've put my two cents in and joined the club, I have some advice for the women asking:

For those women who believe they are pregnant. The second you have any suspicion, you truly need to buy a pregnancy test. It is worth those $15 in order to save your sanity. I know how hard it is for some. Even getting yourself to buy a test is stepping out of denial, facing the truth, and accepting the potential consequences that may even ruin some peoples lives. However, there is no running there is no hiding. If you make the choice to be sexually active you must be on top of you facts. Read online. I suggest instead of writing on blogs like these, search actual medical sites such as webMD for your needed information. Don't hesitate, don't wait. The long you wait, the less options you have.

Secondly, be careful with the plan B. It is nice that there is such thing as a back up plan or "plan B" in case there is an accident. However, when they say that this is NOT to be taken as regular birth control, they also mean do NOT take this more than three times. The more times you take it after that, you are actually hurting your reproductive organs and giving yourself a lower chance of conceiving in the future when you really want to have a child.

The ugly truth is, keep yourself informed. Have fun, be yourself, live life to the fullest. Although, all the cliche c**p everyone always tells you about "safe sex"- it's really true. Everyone's body is different. You hear all these horror stories online, which do happen, but they don't happen to everyone. So don't get caught up in everyone's subjective experiences, find out for yourself and take care of yourself the way you KNOW you should. If you wear condoms or are on some form of birth control (and do it right) then there is nothing else you can do. You are not pregnant if you condom has not broken, and you are not pregnant if you have not had sex. Don't blame yourself or be too hard on yourself, but get that test! Truthfully you don't want to harm your baby if you have the choice to continue the pregnancy, you also don't want to harm yourself or anyone else while you wait- it's not fair to anyone involved.

Lastly, tender breasts, bloat, nausea, headaches, weight gain, and symptoms related to pregnancy can come at anytime, from any where, and cannot be explained for at times. All you do want to know, is that pregnancy is not what can explain them.

I wish the best for everyone struggling.

I dont believe that you should not have sex if you dont want a baby. Its a natural human instinct and there are lots of ways to avoid having babies just dont be dumb about it. Some people dont want babies until later in life doesnt mean they shouldnt have sex.

I LOVE how everyone has an opinion on whether or not these people are pregnant i.e. No, your stomach won't be hard until this time, no you won't have symptoms at 3 weeks, blah blah blah.  Who are you people?  Every single pregnancy is different.  I had symptoms at 2 going on 3 weeks.  The lower part of my stomach got really hard, my breasts were extremely sore, etc.  I took a pregnancy test 10 days before my period and a (very faint) plus sign showed up.  I thought maybe it was too soon and I it was false.  I waited another week and took a second test, and there was that damn plus sign again...not so faint this time.  So, yes, you can see/feel symptoms at 3 weeks.  Now, that it has been over a year since that pregnancy, I do get tender/swollen breasts the week before my period.  I get bloated and my lower abdomen feels hard (so, obviously, I am terrified and moody as hell thinking that I pregnant again) during the same time.  Now, it has just become my pms.  The best thing to do whenever you think that you're pregnant, is to go buy a pregnancy test, or get one at a planned parenthood.  They are definitely accurate enough to either let you know of put you at ease.  Stress is the biggest factor in how your body reacts.  You can literally take on symptoms of pregnancy simply because you're afraid that maybe, you might be.  But to those of you, who are telling these girls that they're crazy, are the crazy ones.  Again, EVERY pregnancy is different.  And if you were to try and tell me that I was NOT pregnant or that I must be nuts to think that I'm pregnant at 2 weeks...well, you'd be very wrong. 

You know, obviously, if someone is posting in here about being scared of being pregnant the last thing they want to hear is negative comments. Tell them something they dont know or stop posting the F@#% off and hope to God you are never in a desperate situation where you feel lonely and simply need an honest but not judgemental opinion.

Listen All You perople who are going off on people you guys are not their parents to be telling them that they are not ready for a baby or they need to stop having sex ! its a free country let them be dumb and make their own decisions as far as im concerned i am almost 3 weeks pregnant and i dont want to be a parent and i know im not ready but im swallowing my pride and im going to take care of my problem and no my baby isnt a mistake it was a mistake in which me and the baby's farther made so leave them alone everyone makes mistakes ! Gosh stupid people !

first off i dont think u should stop having sex if ur scared ur going to get pregnant. stop having sex if ur gonna be scared ur pregnant everytime. secondly, U CANT GET PREGNANT BY GETTING FINGERED! sperm comes out of a penis not a finger! if u have ur periods and tests are negative then go to a dr. the internet can only help u so far. and for the girl who isnt ready to be a mother or have an abortion, first i want to say i dont agree with baby murder for ur own mistakes so im going to comend u secondly those are not ur only 2 options. adoption. i have been trying for 5 yrs, and i think it finally might have taken but others are so lucky. pass ur blessing in disguise to someone who can see it for what it really is. 

okay so heres the deal i took two pregnancy test they were both negative, so first off i was wondering if even if it says negative could yo still be pregnant? second i had my period last month for 2 weeks exactly, this month it came a day late and i am still on it so i pray it doesnt last 2 weeks again.. i have a knot inside of my stomach in the top left my side hurts sometimes i feel sick, i cannot tell if my boobs have gotten bigger and i feel like i could eat a horse and still be hungry!!!... i thought when you became pregnant and started showing it would show near the belly button area not way above that area. the knot moves from the middle to the side sometimes it feels bigger sometimes it doesn`t. i am on birth control but sometimes i do not get the chance to take it on the scheduled time, i am worried it could be a hernia, or stomach cancer, i would much rather it be a baby than either of those. a week ago it hurt my stomach extremely bad to breathe in sometimes the pain is overwhelming. i walk around looking pregnant i just dont know, i am going to the doctor in about a week but id really like to know aheaad of time what im dealing with. someone pleaseee help!!

In Response to Slove--All I can say is GO to the doctor! Seriously. By putting it off you're only hurting yourself. When I was pregnant the first place that I noticed it was my lower, lower abdomen...like RIGHT about my pelvic area. And it didn't move around, it just got hard. Now, I know that every pregnancy is different...but a knot? That doesn't sounds good. You definitely need to get to a doctor and have it checked out. It could be a number of things (including pregnancy; although, if you're bleeding, not just spotting, you're probably not pregnant), but the sooner you find out WHAT it is, the sooner you can begin taking the necessary steps to take care of it.

Good luck!

seriously im beginning to wonder how smart some of you girls are..your bf doesnt cum inside you, your not gonna get pregnant thats it in a nutshell. you require cum in order to get pregnant. you cant get pregnant from being fingered, its physically impossible. grow up and wake up  if you dont want to get pregnant either stop having sex, put a condomn on it, or take birth control..

Im worried about this too but me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom but he didn't ejaculate. But I've noticed that my stomach is hard and my breast are tender. I believe that I'm about 4-6 weeks ( we've had sex several times!) and this morning I woke up feeling fine but after i used the bathroom I wiped and there was blood all over the tissue. Yesterday I rode horses with my mother and I was wondering if I could've caused a miscarriage or if the riding made me sensitive and I started to bleed! I haven't seen a doctor because I'm underage. But I just want to know if I'm ok????

Ok I thought I'd just say that you can be pregnant and have your period 1 or even more, sometimes all the way through. You can know/start to feel changes in your body early as a couple of weeks but it's also normal to have no differences. Each women is different, I personally bleed the 1st few months then it stops. As for you can't be pregnant if he doesn't cum that isn't true as soon as a man/boy entres a women can precum happens and you can get pregnant from that alone. If a guy cum's on his hand then fingers you yes that could make you pregnant. Any experiance that is stressfull on the body physical or mental can cause problems when pregnant or even miscarriage. Spotting can be normal, it can also be a warning sign to slow down or that it's to late damage is done. So look after yourself. You can have a negative test and still be pregnant because they test for a hormone that each women produces a different amount of so always buy 2 test and do one then 2 weeks later do it again. If your still concerned another 2 weeks after that again wouldn't hurt if it sets your mind at rest. It sounds like you need to all look at some more infomation about sex and the mine field of do's and don't. Most places give it free so take advantage and arm yourself with infomation. Hope that this infomation helps someone. Good luck ladies

Icebreaker wrote:

I take the pill but i'm really scared that i might be pregnant. I had sex 3 weeks ago and we didn't use a condom. I feel like my body is changing. My period is for next week but i'm scared that i don't have it. apart from  pregnancy tests how can i know if i'm pregnant? Pleas i need a reply asap!