hi there, i started masturbating from the age of 14 and i am now 19. when i started of it was a few times here and there but then it got to the point when it was like 5 times in a day of even more.
Before i started masturbaing i was lasting for long periods of time when having sex, now when i go 2 have sex with my girl friend i cnt last for much more long than 1minute sometimes.
Reading threw a lot of facts on the internet it seems to me that it is totally the fact that i masturbated so much that ive damaged a few things inside my body.
Since july of this year i have eased up and i have only done it twice since then till now but i still ejaculate within the same time period.
I tried couple things from *****and i dont think they have worked.
Does anyone know what the best thing is to buy or what to do 2 heal up the damaged parts i caused from masturbating so much?
(Thanks to anyone that can help)
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Before i started masturbaing i was lasting for long periods of time when having sex, now when i go 2 have sex with my girl friend i cnt last for much more long than 1minute sometimes.
Reading threw a lot of facts on the internet it seems to me that it is totally the fact that i masturbated so much that ive damaged a few things inside my body.
Since july of this year i have eased up and i have only done it twice since then till now but i still ejaculate within the same time period.
I tried couple things from *****and i dont think they have worked.
Does anyone know what the best thing is to buy or what to do 2 heal up the damaged parts i caused from masturbating so much?
(Thanks to anyone that can help)
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Personally, I don't think it is due to overmasturbation.
You said "Before i started masturbating i was lasting for long periods of time when having sex".....it means you first started having sex and then you started masturbating......as far as I know, everybody start masturbating first.
Anyway, if you are anxious and nervous around your girlfriend, this may be your problem, if not, then you should see a specialist.
1 minute is really short and you should find a doc who could show you and your girlfriend the The Masters and Johnson grip. You can find it on the internet too but it is said that it works much better if demonstrated by a specialist.
You said "Before i started masturbating i was lasting for long periods of time when having sex".....it means you first started having sex and then you started masturbating......as far as I know, everybody start masturbating first.
Anyway, if you are anxious and nervous around your girlfriend, this may be your problem, if not, then you should see a specialist.
1 minute is really short and you should find a doc who could show you and your girlfriend the The Masters and Johnson grip. You can find it on the internet too but it is said that it works much better if demonstrated by a specialist.
Hi John.
Overmasturbation couldn't cause your state to occur, so I would exclude that. I think that your condition is mostly related because you are too much sexually aroused and that's why you can't last that long. You need to calm down in order to achieve your goals in bed with your girlfriend. Try changing poses when you feel that you'll ejaculate, use some tricks in order to endure through. It might be tough at first, but don't worry, you will soon be able to have a normal lasting sex with your girlfriend. Inform us on what you did.
How do you know that you are masturbating too much? If it concerns you, perhaps you could have sex with your girlfriend more often.
You mention damaged parts. Perhaps you need to use more lubrication when you masturbate to protect against friction chaffing, and irritation.