me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday, hes 18 and im about to turn 17 it was the first time for both of us :-)
he lasted for about two hours, we didnt get anything from it and he didnt finish. he did have pre-cum though. we ended up giving up becuase we had to go out, we tried head to make him finish but it still didnt happen. and he was really sore for the rest of the day. :-( which he fixed himself later ;-)
no hes not on cocaine or anything
he takes sleeping pills. and heart medication and thats about it
no erection problem tablets.

he didnt eat before he came over, which i think may have contributed to it, because he didnt have enough energy
also it was 43 degrees celcius yesterday >-<
he said it might have been because he was turned off because i was in alot of pain, (he broke my hymen)
the other thing i thought might have contributed to it is that we used a condom. i know ive heard of guys not being able to have an orgasm from a condom so could he be one of those ?

if so, is there any contraception i can take ?
not the pill though >-<

im so confused as to why it happened :-(

were going to try again but if anyone could help that would be seriously great :-)