HELP ME. PLEASE!
I'm 14 in a month! I don't want to be a freak of nature...
I have girls to deal with! School grades! Popularity!
I do not want to die.
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circumcision is minor surgery??? I would think the loss of your foreskin is a bit more major than that. And its also completely unnecassary in this case.
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anonymous wrote:
do you really feel confortable with your mom pulling back your forskin at 16 , that is unusual that you would let her, that is not nomal fr someone your age
He/she said while hiding behind the name "Guest".
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First of all, RELAX. You're not going to die from what you didn't know. Thousands of generations before you have survived in complete ignorance of all the things we discuss here.
There is no rule that your head is supposed to show when you have an erection. That depends on the length of your foreskin and everyone is different. If it shows, great. If it doesn't, that's fine too. I'd be willing to bet there have been millions of guys who never pulled their foreskin back to clean under it in their whole lives. Our bodies do a pretty good job of taking care of themselves just as they are built. Do you have to clean under your eyelids? Do girls clean inside their vaginas?
My mother always retracted my foreskin to clean under it and I think there were several benefits from that but the keeping it clean part was probably not really necessary. Growing up with a foreskin that had been constantly retracted as I grew made it more comfortable for me, I'm sure.
It IS nice for you and your lover if your glans can slide out of and back into it during sex. It provides much pleasure for both of you for several reasons.
Because we all like to be "clean", being able to retract it to clean out the smegma is certainly nice also.
So you can get started by stretching it so it will retract comfortably. I did mine by inserting two fingers (one from each hand) into the opening while in the shower and pulling it open a bit. Only a little so it didn't hurt but I could feel it stretching. For this to do any good you need to hold it like that for minutes at a time. The more you do it the sooner you will see results. Keep doing it until you find it will go back over the head easily and comfortably.
While you are masturbating, just keep pulling it back a little tighter so you can feel it stretching. That gives you a whole lot of added stretching time if you are like most boys your age. When I was 13/14 I gave mine a workout at least 5 or 6 times a day.
So just keep stretching it as often as you can. It will get there in a while. It may take as long as a year to get it stretched as much as you want but you get to decide how much is enough. Don't sweat the cleaning, clean as much as you can as you can get to it.
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easy dude. if you use a cup and fill it with warm soapy water and then shove your pecker into the up and let it soak for 5 minutes and then
stretch the skin down and up pull the skin away from your pecker while soft and the pull it back towards you.
You will not die but your pecker will drop off if you don't take care of it.
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