My fiancé and I want to try anal penetration. He is using a condom to be on the extra safe side. I need to know what I can use, besides legit lube, so that everything goes, um.. *smoothly* lol anyway thanks
If you have had anal before, it's better to dialate your anal cavity so it goes in for smooth sailing and take it slow or it sends pains up your body. My boyfriend and I tried to go right in and I couldn't move because of all the pain. It's like my whole body did a spasm, a painful one at that.
I've never done it before. We want to try it for the first time. Some website said to use lube but I can't go buy it so I wanted to know some alternatives and thanks. But how do I dilate it?