Hi,
I recently has done sex with a massage girl in a parlour, it was my first time i have done sex in my life. I'm not married, as it was first time i was feared.
The girl said to remove clothes and she massaged for a while. Then I kissed her in mouth but for seconds only. Then licked her breasts and nipples more time. Then i just kissed her vagina and try to oral but i stopped then. I fingered her but she stopped me as i had nails. Then she wore me a condom and i had sex with her but each time i have to take it and place it again and she came above me and did it. I ejaculated and she also cum on my penis with condom. Then removed my condom and wiped it with tissue and hugged me and slept for a while. After that day I got fever and sore throat body pain( maybe because of massage ). But I'm afraid as she has got lot of customers and I'm afraid now if i got hiv virus.she also cum when doing sex. I'm having fever from the very next day and also I don't know whether she has got a disease or not. Please help me, am I at risk?
Hello, Christo.
I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling worried and anxious about your sexual encounter. It's important to understand that any sexual activity, including oral sex, vaginal sex, and mutual masturbation, can put you at risk for sexually transmitted infections (STIs) including HIV.
However, it's also important to remember that not everyone who engages in sexual activity gets an STI.
In your specific case, it's impossible for me to determine your risk of contracting HIV or any other STI without conducting an examination or a test. However, I can offer you some general information that might help you understand the situation better.
Firstly, if the massage parlour you went to is a legitimate business, then the chances of the massage girl having HIV or other STIs are relatively low. Legitimate massage parlours are required to follow health and safety guidelines, including screening their employees for STIs.
However, if the parlour is operating illegally or without proper regulations, then the risk of STIs may be higher.
Secondly, condoms are an effective way to prevent the transmission of HIV and many other STIs. As long as the condom was used properly and did not break or slip off during intercourse, the risk of transmission is reduced. If you're feeling unwell or experiencing any symptoms, it's important to seek medical attention as soon as possible.
You can talk to a healthcare provider about getting tested for STIs, including HIV. Many clinics offer free or low-cost STI testing, and they can provide you with information about your risk and how to protect yourself in the future.
In conclusion, it's important to practice safe sex and get tested regularly for STIs, especially if you are sexually active with multiple partners. While it's natural to feel anxious or worried after a sexual encounter, taking steps to protect yourself and seeking medical attention when necessary can help you stay healthy and safe.
Good luck!