I recently found out my husband cheated on me:( when I asked why he said: it was easier with her. He says he can't feel me during sex (i had 2 kids). Then we tried to have sex he couldn't come(this became an issue year and a half ago). He says it's not me, but now I'm wondering if it's because I'm too big for him . He is large in length but not width. Is it possible to be too big? Any advice is helpful is it possible to change that without surgery? I've been doing keggles but that does not seem to help. I know sex is important in marriage can a marriage be saved if I can't satisfy him?
Try different sex positions and more of foreplay. Yes Kegel exercises can help. Try discovering movements that can tighten vaginal muscles.
Thanks aushi. Does anyone have any other ideas. I've tried toys, food you name it. Also I know it's stupid but I've asked him if he had that issue with "her" and he said no. His equipment is operating just fine, he just can't seem to climax. I know her ex was small (we used to be friends) but she had kids as well, so now I'm wondering if my husband's issues is psychological rather than physical? Any ideas? I'm all caught up going around in circles. Feel like I'm going crazy I go from sad to angry to disapointed. Feels like 5 stages of grief all over again.
Btw that was my question.I just wasn't logged in when I wrote it.