Me and my bf have been together for 11 mons. At about 8 months i told him choose- pot or me. My reasons for this were: When he was high he just sat there and was quite. We didn't interact because he zoned out often. We never made love when he was high. He is a gorgeous man, but when he is high, i find him unattractive. Earlier in the relationship he was into other, very addictive drugs (crack, coke, prescription pills). I was a very closed-up person and it toke me a long time to tell him how much I hated him when he did those drugs. He quit everything except weed. He has tried to quit, but slips up and does it. He knows how much it hurts me, and he says after he is high he feels guilty.


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Any suggestions on how to help him quit. He wants to, not only for me, but for himself. He wants to get staighted out, attend a trade school, and have a family. He says he wants me to marry me when the time comes. I would love to spend my life with him. When he isnt high, he is an amazing person.