anal intercourse with a guy

woz, ur not a fag. my b/f finally got e to try anal, n well, as long as hes hittin it from behind, and gently biteing me on th back or shoulders its a big turn on. i can relax and enjoy it so to speek. im not doing it because i hav these jinormous orgasmns wen he stiks it in my ass. im doing it because he likes it. thats a big part of what relationships are about. sacrafice. hes gentle. lots of lube is th key and rub the anus wth lots of lube wth ur fingers for a while. i like that alot. thats way more stimulating than th entrance for me. id do anything in reason to satisfy my b/f. he in return does th same for me. im working on penatrating him. ive brought it up a few times. he says ok. but im not ready yet. seriously, im afraid hell sh*t on me. LITERALLY... do u also like the idea of gettin it in th ass? i need help on that one...

I am totally surprised you are even responding to this.. if you are so against the subject.. why are you reading about it... hmmm ever heard of Fraud.. prominate psychiatrist?!!! A little desire in the loans you cant deal with? Please lurk somewhere else and allow people to discuss as they need on an open forum... we arent interested in your BS views.. we are here for a reason.. you have no reason and odviously no ENJOYMENT. Perhaps you should be reading about Erectile disfunction... or "I cant find anyone to love me".. this thread is not for you!!!

Pixie... I'm not sure what MATURITY has to do with getting over the "poop" thing on anal sex. I'm 46 and I've tried anal sex a few times because I've fallen for the "I'll be gentle" and "but you've never tried it with ME" line. Never ever again. I've tried the small ones, the large ones, the gentle ones, lots and lots of lube, etc. I find it VERY uncomfortable, NOT a turn on and actually painful at times. Now, I'm sure there are women out there that LOVE it and find it very stimulating. I'm not one of them, and again, maturity has NOTHING to do with accepting it. Geez.

I agree with a couple of other posters... either find a woman willing or pay for it. Maybe it will satisfy your curiosity and either you won't want to do it again, or you'll REALLY want it all the time. I too, know many men that are just obsessed with anal sex. My guess is the taboo thing and the fact that it's tighter than a vagina in most cases, yes?

I don't want to be mean or anything...But don't frieken cheat on your girlfriend just for sexual pleasure, that is WRONG...If she knows about it and agrees with it...that's fine, but likely she'd be so hurt about the thought of it she'd break up with you...but I don't know what her personality is like...I love my boyfriend dearly, and we plan to get married next year, and he also wants to have anal sex...I won't do it, for multiple reasons...it's not because I don't care about his feelings, or because I am influenced by the taboos on it...But...the thought of it makes me cringe...he's very large (almost eleven inches), and I'm pretty small, I may be tall (5'8) but my body is very fine boned, and everything is tiny, to give you an example of size, my wrist is a bout a centimeter bigger than a quarter-when you take on hand and measure the wrist with your fingers, and then hold up the fingers in a circle to see how big the wrist is) and the thought of even a finger going in such a tiny place sounds painful as all heck...plus, the thought of getting an infection in there would be horrible, plus the smell wouldn't be too great either...it would just be an embarrassing and painful experience...Also, she may not be comfortable with you yet, talk to her about it, tell her how much it means to you, ask her to at least read up on it, and if she still says no to anal intercourse, ask her if she'd ever think about it in the future...maybe when you two get to know each other better?

Also, you can get toys (vibrators) to imitate the feeling of anal sex on your self...if that is what you meant about the homosexuality thing...(not saying you're a homosexual, I know of a lot of cases in which guys-especially younger and more inexperienced ones-have found the thought of sex with other guys to be a turn on, even though they would never even kiss a guy or date one...so don't worry too much...but it also isn't a bad thing to be gay...really (: some of the nicest people I know are gay...I also have a relative or two who are gay...and they're great people...however, sexual preference does not make the person...

"but I keep having sexual thoughts about having anal intercourse with a guy"

There are many guys who are bi but mostly straight. You would be considered a top bi guy. Means you like to "be the man" with another man. The insertive partner never the receptive partner.

There are MANY guys like you.

Find a bottom gay guy. Tell him you are not into cuddle and kiss. If you are physically fit and attractive you won't have a problem finding a bottom for sex only no relationship.

Wear a condom this is a must. The bottom will have the lube and teach/train you on how to "top".

Nothing unique about your post or your sexual desires.

Good Luck

I just hope that those straight guys can use their common sense once in a while. If a guy wants to try anal sex with his girl doesn't make him gay. I should explain the meaning of straight, bi, gay and lesbian.

Straight = male with female
Bi = male or female with male and female
Gay = male with male ONLY
Lesbian = female with female ONLY

If you straight guys still don't understand the meaning of gay, you can always google it. Please stop ***edited by moderator******* when u post something next time and also maintain straight guy's reputation.
Thank you.

Hi there I'm not gay either but was curious about four years ago and let me tell you if you want to try it go to a sex store pick up a 9" dildo with a diameter of 2.25" thick. There will be some discomfort at first but make sure you use a lot of ky jelly and go slow. What feels good for me is a slow and steady motion then after it starts to stimulate my prostate and anal muscle; Yeah it will start to feel good, trust me. Then I like to go deeper and faster...I would never thought it would feel good but it does, if feels so so so so so good it makes me orgasm all the time. But it takes a good 15-30min before it begins to feel good after your anal gets stimulated it feels like the best thing in the world next to p***y. Sometimes I will I was a girl so I can get screwed really hard by a huge penis, just a fantasy though. I don't like the thought of kissing a guy and all that emotional sh*t. I bet some guys on here tried it but are just too afraid to voice their opinion. It feels soooooooooo amazing 8-|

Hey man dont worry EVERY guy wants to try anal and some girls to
just because your havng homosexual thoughts dosen't make you a homosexual its called 'experimenting"whitch alot of people do in collage...
you might be bi so if you dont wanna cheat
try getting into a threesome with ur girl you,guy,her
or you,her,girl whos willing to!

I love black penis in my hungry are.