After doing research it was explained that it could be broken from unproper use of a tampon. Do you use them????
no i dont use any tampons.....
Hi Shailee,
I'm guessing you're not from a western culture(?) Whether you're a virgin or not is not an important issue to the majority of western men- after all, most of them have been around a few females before entering in to marriage!
A hymen can be broken at any time and by a number of ways and no- sorry, but there is no iron-clad method of telling whether someone is a virgin. It is a statement that should be taken on trust, not evidence.
A hymen can broken by exercise, riding a bike or riding a horse and most girls that break it before sex don't know that it's happened. It can appear a short, unexpected period or come away with a period or in urine.
What's more concerning about your post is that your husband is calling you a liar without any proper knowledge of the situation. If you say you're a virgin, he should trust that- isn't trust one of the biggest factors in a marriage?
I'm guessing that a woman of your culture has less rights and abilty to say her mind than a man does. If this was a western woman writing this post, I would tell her to get out now- that her husband has little respect for her if he doesn't believe what she says and needs evidence to prove her words.
But as it is, I don't think you have you freedom. You can only tell your husband the medical facts, which he may not believe anyway.
Good luck
V