So I dated this girl for half a year, and it was by far the best relationship I have had so far. We'll just call her Ann, and throughout the course of the relationship, my best friend started talking to her a lot, and we'll call him Michael. Now this friend has been there for me thick and thin for as long as I can remember.
Towards the end of those 6 months, Ann and I started having problems, and Ann and Michael started hanging out more and more. I had suspicions and when I voiced them to Ann, she only got mad which was one of the factors which led to us breaking up because of trust issues with my best friend and her.
It's been about two weeks since then, and I'm still trying to get over her, and just yesterday, Michael comes to me and tells me that Ann and him like each other. I was shocked.. I couldn't believe that he could to do that to his best friend. He said he was wrong for liking her, but he never said that he would try to stop. He was trying to pass it off as him doing me a favor, so I woul get over Ann.
It killed me inside just to see them together as friends, and now this... Ann and Michael were by far, the two friends I love the most, and now this.. Michael knows that it's wrong because the same thing happened last year when he broke up with a girlfriend, and then he got mad at me because he thought that I liked her, and now he's doing this to me...
I think a huge part of the reason why this is so upsetting, is that he would go and pick someone over his best friend. Him and Ann probably wouldnt last longer than a year, but me and him.. we go way back, and we're planning on majoring in the same things in college, and everything.. and this changes it all.
He wants to be continue being friends like nothing had happened, but I can't be friends with him if he's going to do this. It's not that I don't want to be friends, it's just that everytime I look at him or think about what he's done, I would hate his guts even more.
I really don't know what to do.. I've already talked to Ann, but that didn't help at all. She basically said not to make things harder than it had to be. It's like she doesn't even care about me anymore. I'm over her, but a part of me still loves her, and I want her to move on.. but not to my best friend.. any other guy would have been fine with me.
I know this sounds complicated..but any advice from anyone on what I should do would be greatly appreciated.
Towards the end of those 6 months, Ann and I started having problems, and Ann and Michael started hanging out more and more. I had suspicions and when I voiced them to Ann, she only got mad which was one of the factors which led to us breaking up because of trust issues with my best friend and her.
It's been about two weeks since then, and I'm still trying to get over her, and just yesterday, Michael comes to me and tells me that Ann and him like each other. I was shocked.. I couldn't believe that he could to do that to his best friend. He said he was wrong for liking her, but he never said that he would try to stop. He was trying to pass it off as him doing me a favor, so I woul get over Ann.
It killed me inside just to see them together as friends, and now this... Ann and Michael were by far, the two friends I love the most, and now this.. Michael knows that it's wrong because the same thing happened last year when he broke up with a girlfriend, and then he got mad at me because he thought that I liked her, and now he's doing this to me...
I think a huge part of the reason why this is so upsetting, is that he would go and pick someone over his best friend. Him and Ann probably wouldnt last longer than a year, but me and him.. we go way back, and we're planning on majoring in the same things in college, and everything.. and this changes it all.
He wants to be continue being friends like nothing had happened, but I can't be friends with him if he's going to do this. It's not that I don't want to be friends, it's just that everytime I look at him or think about what he's done, I would hate his guts even more.
I really don't know what to do.. I've already talked to Ann, but that didn't help at all. She basically said not to make things harder than it had to be. It's like she doesn't even care about me anymore. I'm over her, but a part of me still loves her, and I want her to move on.. but not to my best friend.. any other guy would have been fine with me.
I know this sounds complicated..but any advice from anyone on what I should do would be greatly appreciated.
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