My name is Amanda, i'm 15 and i want to lose my virginity to my boyfriend. But i have a HUGE inner labia. I want to do surgery but so many people have told me i was just going to regret it later. I'm worried about what my boyfriend is going to think. Is there any other options? What should i do?
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every girls vagina is different just because you have a large labia does not mean you are not normal. if you are concerned look at some pictures of vaginas, there is actually a book called the vagina book which is nothing but pictures of vaginas, simply to prove that everyone is different. Your boyfriend will probably not even notice what you think is "large" he will just be excited enough to get the pleasure of seeing it
Vulvas are all different and they are all wonderful. Show him you are proud of it and make him feel lucky that you are allowing him to see, touch ,kiss, and worship it.
First off there is no such thing as regrets....these are just mistakes in life we learn from and try to teach others of its bad affects.
Secondly, your young, surgery at this point shouldnt be an option. What annoys me in this era of a society, tabloids has too much of a impact on how we want to look and feel. Personally, i dont let it affect me, and believe it or not, guys feel the same way. Admitting, not all guys, but the majority. Not everyone wants a super hot partner, or whatever. Most guys want just you. If your boyfriend makes some kind of comment you find offensive and it hurts you, then get rid. Youre better off without him and someone better will come along.
Be strong, confident, hold your head up high and never EVER let anyone bring you down :)
Secondly, your young, surgery at this point shouldnt be an option. What annoys me in this era of a society, tabloids has too much of a impact on how we want to look and feel. Personally, i dont let it affect me, and believe it or not, guys feel the same way. Admitting, not all guys, but the majority. Not everyone wants a super hot partner, or whatever. Most guys want just you. If your boyfriend makes some kind of comment you find offensive and it hurts you, then get rid. Youre better off without him and someone better will come along.
Be strong, confident, hold your head up high and never EVER let anyone bring you down :)
Abstinence. Abstinence is always the answer!