Okay, last night I was planning to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time. We were ready to go, put when he would get his penis all the way in, it was hurting really badly. He was being gentle and trying not to hurt me, we tried me being on top, but in the end we just stopped because it was too painful for me. I've heard it can hurt your first time, so I'm not really concerned about that. About an hour later I got up to go to the bathroom and I was bleeding. Last night it was a lot of blood when I wiped, which I've heard can also happen the first time, but the bleeding has continued through the night and into today, and I've been a bit sore today. I noticed the bleeding at 2:30 this morning, it's now almost 5 pm and I'm still spotting. I know it's common for girls to bleed their first time, but I didn't know if it was supposed to last this long or not, so I just want to make sure everything's normal. I'm new on birth control so it could possibly be spotting from that I guess, but my period ended about 5 days ago and I was spotting before it so I doubt that.
Talking to my best friend, it sounds like my hymen broke, he "popped my cherry", causing the pain and bleeding. So I was also wondering if now that my hymen is broken if it will hurt and/or bleed the next time we try. I wouldn't have even considered us having had sex; he put it in and pulled it out a few times and then we stopped, so to me, I didn't lose my virginity, but medically or whatever, I don't know. I just want to know if it's going to hurt again next time! I really hope not!
Talking to my best friend, it sounds like my hymen broke, he "popped my cherry", causing the pain and bleeding. So I was also wondering if now that my hymen is broken if it will hurt and/or bleed the next time we try. I wouldn't have even considered us having had sex; he put it in and pulled it out a few times and then we stopped, so to me, I didn't lose my virginity, but medically or whatever, I don't know. I just want to know if it's going to hurt again next time! I really hope not!
This is very common for a womens first time. As for your question, it is possible to hurt next time. Since your vigina is still not used to being penitrated it is still tight. It could hurt the next couple times. It will eventually stop hurting. Hoped this helped.
Hey, yeah my first time was also painful. Like everything you're going through I went through. I guess this is pretty normal, you'll stop bleeding and the next few times you do have intercourse can be painful.
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