Ok so i had sex with my gf 2 days before her period. It was may 18th and she got her period on May 20th, it was a normal period liek always and it lasted for 5 days.
we had unprotected sex, i know i am very stupid. and it was only for 5 minutes. i know that i didn't ejaculate at all.
Shes 13 and i am 15.
a month later and she said she had some bleeding 5 days before her period. It does not follow with cramps and nausea and backache. and it doesn't sound like implantation bleeding
PLEASE PLEASE help me i am very worry
a month later and she said she had some bleeding 5 days before her period. It does not follow with cramps and nausea and backache. and it doesn't sound like implantation bleeding
PLEASE PLEASE help me i am very worry
OK! It is NOT my intention to worry you, BUT ANYTIME you have unprotected sex - even for a couple of seconds - you CAN get a girl pregnant! You can not see sperm, and have NO idea how much sperm are on your penis! NOW for some biology! I don't know if you are even producing sperm - it can be between 10 and 15 and everyone is different! Even though you might ejaculate fluid - doesn't mean there are actual living sperm in it! And also she is 15 and her periods might still be wonky! A girl can ovulate at ANYTIME through her cycle - most of the time it is 14 days before her next period is due!And this is the most fertile time for pregnancy to occur! I think you both dodged the bullet! and her period should happen soon!
NOW I am the mother of 2 boys, and I am upset that a boy your age is involved in having sex - with an older girl! In most country's in the world, what has happened between the two of you is called "Statutory Rape" Your girlfriend could be charged with RAPE! And I am NOT joking about that! As most people will say that a teenager of 15 is TOTALLY aware that he/she should NOT be having sex with a child! IF she ends up pregnant and is forced to say who the father is ALL hell could break loose! and both yours and her lives will NEVER be the same - never mind being pregnant! Just imagine being a father at 13 and she having a criminal sex record at 15 AND being pregnant! So COOL the hormones, and tell her what I said! Sex - ESPECIALLY at your age - is NOT worth a lifetime of having to take care of a child or a child rape record! I PRAY that her period starts soon!
Also FYI implantation bleeding happens 3 - 5 days after the unprotected sex (it is when the fertilized egg implants itself into the lining of the uterus)
"Statutory rape" is having sex with a minor. Now, the minor may have consented to this, but in certain jurisdictions, states, country's they classify different ages of consent! Most are at minimum 13, and the individual legal systems, say that minors simply do not have the mental capacity to consent. So the law sees this as a rape although the minor has actually agreed to have sex. Now SOME jurisdictions have a "Romeo and Juliet Clause" Which looks at the case of "star crossed lovers"! BUT IF one of the "children" are below the age of consent - and usually in most countries the ages vary between 14 - 16, then the other "child" who is over that age is considered the rapist! Harsh? Yes, Needed? DEFINITELY! There have been several high profile trials in the states regarding the ages of consent! And most countries have brought in a 2 year clause! Where IF the 2 people involved are 2 or less years apart in age then they MIGHT not be charged! As I said to this young man that this COULD happen! They both need to know that these laws are in place to stop such activities - of a child having sex! I don't know where they live, so I don't know the specific law for them! BUT It is VERY scary that a 13 year old is involved in sexual activity - even though we know it goes on of course - and he and his girlfriend need to know the consequences that COULD happen! And I also think that schools need to start talking about this to their students! Parents or the police - or both - can bring these charges forward! You just never know what is going to happen! And THAT is needed to be pumelled into these kids heads! That their hormones can NOT always take over and they have to THINK about the total consequences of what MIGHT happen!
For one this is NOT statutory rape. Please don't "pummell" such stuff into the minds of kids. Trying to scare teens is NOT the way forward.
15 with 13 is NOT statutory rape!! I think you are trying to scare teens.That is so unproductive and a very dated way of dealing with sexual issues.
The person asking the question is worried and is asking a genuine question. There is absolutely no reason to jump the legal/moral band wagon to try and scare them. That is just wrong and disgraceful.
They've started having sex. They will continue having sex. We've got to teach them how to do it safely without having any bad consequences.
I was 13ish when I lost my virginity to a much much older guy. The fact that there was a law against this and he was much older didn't change my need to be with him and get into a full blown sexual relationship. I came to absolutely no harm and in fact it had a hugely productive influence on me.
So please, be more moderate in your responses and advice.