I'm only 15, so there's no way I can go to my parents or anyone else about this. Everyone says when u lose your virginity, it bleeds. But for the first three times (with the same guy) that didn't happen. It didn't hurt or anything. I've had sex with two other guys since the first one (only once each). I can't pinpoint exactly 'when' this became such a problem, but.. both of those guys were kind of rough, and I've started to sorta bleed during intercourse or masterbation.. sometimes just a brown liquid would come out..but usually blood now. this is super embarrassing to post. Could I be cause of the roughness? Or should I be worried about something else? . I have normal periods. What should I do? Since I can't tell my parents or anything.. :,( and how do I reduce the bleeding?