Hello,
I have a slight concern and I'm hoping someone can help me.
For basically the past few years I have masturbated, by using my hands. By rubbing and fingering myself and I've never really had a problem. I have phone sex with my boyfriend (We're on and off. Dated for 9 months, broke up for 7, now we're back together.) And throughout the years I've never really had this problem. Recently, after he and I are finished on my hands there's always blood mixed in with lubrication fluid, and the cum. It doesn't hurt at all, but it still makes me concerned, I'm still a virgin, and I know I don't have any STD's. The phone sex is the closest I've ever come to being sexual with another person. We have plans on actually doing it, fairly soon. But I'm a bit worried about the blood being there when all I was doing was masturbating. Like I said, I've never had this problem before, and I don't know if it's just a factor of being too rough with myself, or if I'm going too deep (And possibly hitting my hymen?) but I really need some help so I can start being comfortable with what he and I are doing again. I've always been okay with it, but when the bleeding started happening, I've been really worried. It's been going on for maybe the past 2-3 months whenever we do something. Does anyone know if I'm doing something wrong? Or should I just ask my Ob/gyn when I end up going for birthcontrol about this? I might not be able to go to this doctor for a few more months and I just wanted to see what others thought. I know there has to be other women out there with this problem.
I have a slight concern and I'm hoping someone can help me.
For basically the past few years I have masturbated, by using my hands. By rubbing and fingering myself and I've never really had a problem. I have phone sex with my boyfriend (We're on and off. Dated for 9 months, broke up for 7, now we're back together.) And throughout the years I've never really had this problem. Recently, after he and I are finished on my hands there's always blood mixed in with lubrication fluid, and the cum. It doesn't hurt at all, but it still makes me concerned, I'm still a virgin, and I know I don't have any STD's. The phone sex is the closest I've ever come to being sexual with another person. We have plans on actually doing it, fairly soon. But I'm a bit worried about the blood being there when all I was doing was masturbating. Like I said, I've never had this problem before, and I don't know if it's just a factor of being too rough with myself, or if I'm going too deep (And possibly hitting my hymen?) but I really need some help so I can start being comfortable with what he and I are doing again. I've always been okay with it, but when the bleeding started happening, I've been really worried. It's been going on for maybe the past 2-3 months whenever we do something. Does anyone know if I'm doing something wrong? Or should I just ask my Ob/gyn when I end up going for birthcontrol about this? I might not be able to go to this doctor for a few more months and I just wanted to see what others thought. I know there has to be other women out there with this problem.
Its possible you could have broken you hymen while fingering yourself . its nothing to be worried about , you might just be a little sore.