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Just over a month a go my girlfriend broke up with me. although ive had other relationships before her, i lost my virginity to her at the age of 19. since we broke up ive been feeling like my heart is constantly beating to hard or/and too fast pretty much all the time. it has stopped me eating, sleeping and being able to enjoy life like i used to. is this feeling of anxiousness normal? it has been really concerning me.

It is definately normal. How you are feeling now proves that you have experienced DEEP love for this girl.

I know the feeling you are experiencing. And yes, i know it hurts and it feels like the end of the world, but if you believe in fate, then you should know that if you do not end up with this girl...then it wasn't meant to be:/

 When your in this state of emotion, your heart feels dead and you feel like you cant go on....but let me tell you that you CAN get through this, you CAN be the person you use to be again, you CAN live and enjoy your life as a young adult....don't let your feelings get in the way of your life, okay? That's the sadest thing to see happen after a serious relationship, I don't want you feeling this way, love.

Theres nothing I can tell you to get you to eat, sleep, and enjoy your life again...this all starts with YOU, but I do want you to know that I, as a complete stranger/friend, do support you and want you to get through this because I've been/still going through all of the things you are going though right now.

I don't know anything about you, except that you love this girl and that you want to be with her like crazy...and that's exactly why I wanna help you...

I hope to see you improve as a person and as a man in the future

Goodluck & Godbless<3

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thankyou, what you say makes a lot of sense. but my heart has been beating harder than i feel it should for over a month now. should it of stopped by now? because it doesnt feel entirely normal :
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I don't think it's serious, if it is really beating really fast because of her and the whole break-up situation...then it would soon past.
I felt like that too...like things were happening that has never happend to me before and it felt like forever.
But just be strong for yourself...it is very normal
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