Dear Finging! As I said to Little bit! Self hurt - is a way of dealing with pain/isolation/trauma etc. etc.! You are DEFINITELY NOT alone, self hurt is almost an epidemic! And there are MANY arguments why! I believe it is that disconnect that high tech brings - such as texting instead of talking, computer instead of reading, computer instead of outside and exercising! ALL the good hormones are replaced with downer activities! It is awful for growing kids and I feel SO badly for your generation! SO MANY people don't sit at the dinner table and TALK! It is ALL about getting AWAY! And it makes the children of such chaos, feel unloved, unheard, and that no one cares! We are SO overwhelmed, that we forget to breathe, and look around us so we know what's going on with our loved ones! Thus this site being a GREAT way to find out that you are NOT a freak, and you are NOT alone! And hopefully get some answers and possibly some help to cope! BIG HUGS honey!
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yeah, your like the only one that actually seems to care and understand it. most people are so oblivious, no one sees me i swear it's like i'm invisible. things use to be good, my family use to sit and talk, back when my family was still a family. but no one cares about me and i don't know what else to do anymore, i litterally want to die. it sucks and i tried to od and it didn't even work.
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I think it worked JUST FINE! Honey! Because you survived and are STILL here! Have you ever had therapy? Like someone to talk to on a medical basis? The 1st thing you need to know honey is you are DEFINITELY NOT alone! And when you hurt yourself, or do something to "FEEL" you are no different than someone drinking their face off, or smoking, chewing their nails, pulling their hair out, smoking up, cutting, eating too much/not enough! It is ALL relative! As there is usually that 1 common denominator - that the child/teen/young adult/adult CAN'T cope with things! Depression in children is reaching EPIDEMIC levels, as are the "known" cases of self mutilation! to loved ones it is more a natural feeling, and they are horrified that their child is hurting themselves - they don't get it! BUT to strangers or outsiders - I "understand" it!
As I asked littlebit, I will ask you! What do you think THE trigger was, and what REALLY sets you off now?
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do you think i could talk to you under my post? its under the children's/teen's health called "i feel like giving up". i just don't want to take you away from littlebit and take over her post when she needs you. would that be ok?
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https://www.steadyhealth.com/I_feel_like_giving_up__t259757.html - This is my post.
But to answer your questions, no I've never talked to anyone, I've never had anyone who I could talk to. But no one knows how bad it is, no one cares to know. What made me feel this way? Where to even start!? There's to many things, I can't take it anymore. I just want to give up. I really don't want to be here anymore. :'(
But to answer your questions, no I've never talked to anyone, I've never had anyone who I could talk to. But no one knows how bad it is, no one cares to know. What made me feel this way? Where to even start!? There's to many things, I can't take it anymore. I just want to give up. I really don't want to be here anymore. :'(
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I DO understand honey - I REALLY do! BUT you need to reach out to someone that CAN help you further - such as Kid's help phone, suicide prevention etc. Can you talk to your parents or anyone in your family? What about your friends? Just know this honey! I've been there and done that! And I DO get that overwhelming sense of "WHY?" BUT THANK GOD I didn't do anything1 I wouldn't know my lovely boys! I wouldn't have become friends with INCREDIBLE people etc. I'm not belittling you honey, it's more of a life preserver that says "It could be worth it!" So I see this has been handled a couple of ways 1. You email me privated and tell me where you live and I will find you help in that area 2. You talk to your family/friends 3. Just hash it out with me! There is NOTHING I haven't heard before, and I WILL LISTEN, and VALIDATED you! AND - THE MOST Important - I WILL believe yu and try my damdest to help you honey! BIG HUGS And let's start 1 by one!
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You made me cry, but thanks that means a lot. But like I really don't have anyone anymore and I hate it. No one wants me, or likes me, or cares about me, or loves me. So why even be here?
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Lets cross these "people" off the list as we go OK? I CARE! PERIOD! And I want to listen and I want to help you! Lets do one thing at a time - and if you don't feel like talking about the "BIG issue" then we will talk about the little stuff - that we can try and sort those out first! And sometimes it IS the little things that add up and rock your foundation! A HUGE building stands on little rocks - so if they disappear or start crumbling eventually the building WILL fall! HEH! I LIKE That!!!! LOL So talk to me honey, I AM HERE and HEAR! And one other thing before we start our friendship I use exclamation marks ALL the time!!!! LOL And I also use capital letters - to accentuate NOT to shout! I was brought in to my bosses office once, and he said "Why do you keep shouting at everyone?" I was like "What the hell is he talking about" And supposedly this little suck up said that she was offended that I was using capital letters! So just know that I talk with my hands, I get SUPER pumped, and exclaim ALL the time!!!! See I can't stop! And also my name is Dawn you can give yourself another moniker - like Belle - from Twilight! And I am also in the Edward Camp!
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I don't even know what to talk about, I wouldn't even know where to start. I can't talk about the little stuff, without bringing up the big stuff. Everything just keeps getting worse! Everything just keeps happening. Your probably going to think its so stupid.
I don't even get why you care so much, no one else does. But you sound really nice, and funny.
And just so you know, its Bella XD lol And yeah, Edward is pretty amazing lol
I don't even get why you care so much, no one else does. But you sound really nice, and funny.
And just so you know, its Bella XD lol And yeah, Edward is pretty amazing lol
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Ok Bella! Just start talking, tell me about yourself, stuff like that, and when you feel more comfortable then you can start talking about other stuff - when EVER you want too! Think of this like learning to swim, you don't just jump into the deep end, or the middle and let's just see how this goes! You start out int he shallow and swimming widths, then deeper, then lengths, then the dive board, then the big diveboard! Etc. So just start - age, likes dislikes etc.
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My name's not Bella, you said the girl from Twilight's name was Belle, but its Bella, unless your calling me that I don't know lol
Ummm.... I just turned 14, well not just but yeah. Dislikes? myself, my life, my school, my stupid town, my mom, my moms new boyfriend, this house! plus a lot more! Likes? there isn't much, Twilight? lmao That ones hard, I don't like a lot right now, the face its friday? lol
Ummm.... I just turned 14, well not just but yeah. Dislikes? myself, my life, my school, my stupid town, my mom, my moms new boyfriend, this house! plus a lot more! Likes? there isn't much, Twilight? lmao That ones hard, I don't like a lot right now, the face its friday? lol
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I called you Bella - so you can feel at ease without telling me your name etc. Some of your dislikes are VERY normal - like school, yourself and to some degree your mom! What about friends - what are they like? do you feel close to any of them?
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Ok. You told me to start out with the little stuff. I don't have any friends anymore, I use to before my mom made us move. And no one likes me at this school and I don't like any of them either. So I'm always alone and I hate it at school. I hang out with people but their not really my friends, just people I party with and stuff. It sucks it really does. I literally have no one anymore and I hate it!
Are there like times you come on? Because it's hard to keep checking lol
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I remember it TOTALLY sucking when my parents made me move! I HATED it! And I think a move is harder on preteen and teens than any other group! So what made your mom leave? So when you say "party" what does this consist of? I will be on here from now till 8:30 pm MST! And then tomorrow after 5pm MST - I go to a market on Sunday mornings!
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