Yea, i know its been like a habit for me. And up til the last little while i would still wake up w/ an erection. But i've never felt this before... That muscle that "flexes" the penis, that one that contracts when u have an orgasm...that one i dont really feel. It feels like its been reduced like crazy, and for some reason its harder to get blood flow to the penis and its almost impossible for it to stay... This doesnt just happen over night... what the heck?
im convinced that this is someone messing about. i masterbate at least twice a day for since i hit puberty and i have had none of these symtoms. i think it actually helps my sexual performance. however i read and believe that you masturbation habits i.e. comeing in like a minuite and not (stoping when close to orgasm and starting when the exitement is gone) can have a affect on your performance. otherwise masterbing 3-4 times a day is not bad for you
I took stuff for prostate inflammation, it seemed to help, i'm still taking it. I did masterbate yesterday (after a number of days) and I am having weaker erections. Is there any way to reverse this without taking any special ointments or creams or pills? If I lay off of it for a while will everything balance out? I've cut caffeine from my diet and I drink alot of water.
It doesn't do anything bad.
Simple as that.
Simple as that.
I can't believe the amount of people saying that wanking is bad for you. For God's sake! Get a grip! It is something that 99% of the world do. Even some animals do it. It's natural and it's healthy. Yeh, if you sit in your room wanking for 24 hours of the day and have no social interaction or don't eat or something then that's bad for your health, but that's not the masturbation; that's neglecting other areas of your life. You could just as easily have the same effect if you sat in your room all day knitting.
Masturbation is healthy. Medical fact. There's no discussion beyond that point. It's simply a face. It doesn't change your size, it doesn't stop you getting hard, it has NO NEGATIVE EFFECTS. It teaches you what feels good, it lets you unwind and relax, it relieves sexual frustration that could otherwise lead to some acts of agression, it lets you guage when you are ready to come (as in, good practice for the real thing) and it is good for your prostate.
Just cos not enough people talk about it, doesn't mean they aren't all doing it. When you grow up and have mature friends, you realise eeryone is doing it. Nobody talks about it in schools cos they don't want the *** taken out of them. That's because they aren't 100% sure there mates are really doing it. Trust me. They are.
Just d what feels good. It's not hurting you or anyone else. They guys on here who have problems are just trying to blame it on something like masturbation because they don't want to admit that it is down to other problems in their lives or that they are just *****
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Masturbation is healthy. Medical fact. There's no discussion beyond that point. It's simply a face. It doesn't change your size, it doesn't stop you getting hard, it has NO NEGATIVE EFFECTS. It teaches you what feels good, it lets you unwind and relax, it relieves sexual frustration that could otherwise lead to some acts of agression, it lets you guage when you are ready to come (as in, good practice for the real thing) and it is good for your prostate.
Just cos not enough people talk about it, doesn't mean they aren't all doing it. When you grow up and have mature friends, you realise eeryone is doing it. Nobody talks about it in schools cos they don't want the *** taken out of them. That's because they aren't 100% sure there mates are really doing it. Trust me. They are.
Just d what feels good. It's not hurting you or anyone else. They guys on here who have problems are just trying to blame it on something like masturbation because they don't want to admit that it is down to other problems in their lives or that they are just *****
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An inhuman view of the other sex results from viewing sadistic or dehumanizing porn.
Masterbating in itself will not make your life a mess, nor will it cause any side-effects other than soreness. Trying to completely stop masterbating is a horrible idea, that will likely result in failure and self-confidence issues. Also, masterbating 3-4 times some days at your age is normal--either you will grow out of it or you will become so sore that it is not enjoyable anymore.
That being said, I would set some limits for yourself. The most important thing to is to not let your porn use get out of control. There are two reasons for this. First of all viewing alot of porn could lead to dehumanizing the other sex, and secondly porn is like any other stimulus in that the more you view the more you will need the next time.
I would recomend staying away from most hardcore porn, and instead use erotica or softcore. Nickscipio is a pretty good erotica site.
If you feel you must use hardcore porn, then try to limit yourself to one image/video per climax.
You might also want to try regulating your masterbation habits. Try doing it just once every day at a specific time (for example before you go to bed or get home from school). This will hopefully give you a greater sense of control and eliminate the urge to sometimes masterbate 3-4 times a day.
Moderation is the key.
Masterbating in itself will not make your life a mess, nor will it cause any side-effects other than soreness. Trying to completely stop masterbating is a horrible idea, that will likely result in failure and self-confidence issues. Also, masterbating 3-4 times some days at your age is normal--either you will grow out of it or you will become so sore that it is not enjoyable anymore.
That being said, I would set some limits for yourself. The most important thing to is to not let your porn use get out of control. There are two reasons for this. First of all viewing alot of porn could lead to dehumanizing the other sex, and secondly porn is like any other stimulus in that the more you view the more you will need the next time.
I would recomend staying away from most hardcore porn, and instead use erotica or softcore. Nickscipio is a pretty good erotica site.
If you feel you must use hardcore porn, then try to limit yourself to one image/video per climax.
You might also want to try regulating your masterbation habits. Try doing it just once every day at a specific time (for example before you go to bed or get home from school). This will hopefully give you a greater sense of control and eliminate the urge to sometimes masterbate 3-4 times a day.
Moderation is the key.
what a lode of dingoes kidneys
just have fun your 14 dood, go for it and enjoy yourself.
you will have to deal with all these wankers soon enough in life.
whith there hang ups, missinformation, health problems, scycotic disorders.
just have fun your 14 dood, go for it and enjoy yourself.
you will have to deal with all these wankers soon enough in life.
whith there hang ups, missinformation, health problems, scycotic disorders.
i masterbate atleast 3x a day is it normal. sometimes my legs move freakishly wierd all over the place?
this site is****** you want to know the facts masterbation doesnt effect you in any physical way. the only way it becomes a problem for example you were suppose to go play with timmy down the street and instead of doing that you masterbate and ditch him the only effect it can have is on social status and i cant say i have ever heard of this happening at a rate where it effects you dont worry about masterbating all the people on this site that say it has ruined there life should leave there parents basement cause masterbating doesnt have that effect on you and the people are trying to find a way to blame there socail issues on something else its perfectly healthy for you to masterbate as long as you dont make it a problem. and yes in some situations masterbating can effect the pleasure of sex and ultimatily makes it so you dont want sex but this is because you need to grip harder than a vagina (or anus) which is a problem but that can be solved by masterbating with a new technique. so yes its normal that your pattern changes and no masterbating isnt going to effect you mentally or physically if you dont let it effect you.
Im not at the point where I have to wank everyday..I just like porn...I need to atleast bust a load every other day. Then ill be good to go...
You're going to just scare the kid with this "DOOM" theory of yours. Depriving yourself from masturbation is like trying to un-eat the apple of knowledge. We all already know how to masturbate and we wont stop as a species. For god's sake, honestly, most evolved mammals with opposable thumbs masturbate! If anybody is masturbating too much to be bothered going outside, they really need to get some friends or a hobby, or both!
this is all bull****. this is the truth. masterbation WILL NOT cause impotence. it WILL NOT cause anti-social behaviour. masterbation WILL NOT negaltively affect your atheltic performance, in fact according to experiments (watch mysthbusters), it may help. it WILL NOT disrupt your concentration unless you're thinking about sex, which is normal!!! masterbation is, in fact, HEALTHY. having sex (or masterbating) 4 times a week can make you physiologically younger by 6 years! it relieves stress, and is good for the heart.
why does everyone have to say stuff without researching about it?! most of you are making it very scary. masterbating a couple of times a week is normal. masterbating a couple of times a day is normal. not masterbating is normal. IT'S UP TO YOU. EVERYBODY'S DIFFERENT. and teenagers aren't the only ones that do it. neither are men. women masterbate too, but to a realtively lesser extent ( they like sex just as much, maybe even more than us. it's just because women get turned on more gradually, like a volume knob, and their libido depends a lot on their emotional state). so eliminate the guilt right now!!! get educated. research about it. you'll see the vast majority saying it's safe and normal and healthy.
Masterbation is a problem when it's done excessively like 10 times a day or more, and when you watch 12 hours of porn a day, and that's all you do. it's when it interferes with your life. the lack of concentration, athletic peformance, etc. has nothing to do with masterbation. my performance in soccer is sometimes better, because i feel more relaxed. c'mon guys. get real. no more bull****.
why does everyone have to say stuff without researching about it?! most of you are making it very scary. masterbating a couple of times a week is normal. masterbating a couple of times a day is normal. not masterbating is normal. IT'S UP TO YOU. EVERYBODY'S DIFFERENT. and teenagers aren't the only ones that do it. neither are men. women masterbate too, but to a realtively lesser extent ( they like sex just as much, maybe even more than us. it's just because women get turned on more gradually, like a volume knob, and their libido depends a lot on their emotional state). so eliminate the guilt right now!!! get educated. research about it. you'll see the vast majority saying it's safe and normal and healthy.
Masterbation is a problem when it's done excessively like 10 times a day or more, and when you watch 12 hours of porn a day, and that's all you do. it's when it interferes with your life. the lack of concentration, athletic peformance, etc. has nothing to do with masterbation. my performance in soccer is sometimes better, because i feel more relaxed. c'mon guys. get real. no more bull****.
I agree with you because i do the same thing 3-4 a day i do it becausae it feels good and i cant have sex untill im 18 im biosexaul and me and my gf like to masterbate each other you know what someing.
wat?! ur life cant become a mess due to masterbation! wat r u smoking?! and it definately doesnt cause serious social crisises. that's ur own problem. o, and jus 4 every1, it doesnt worsen ur eyesight. dis is a myth which came about because people start masturbating about when they become a teen, and this is when your eyesight changes, usually to get worse. jeez...
I can not imagine that here it is the 21st century and our young people still do not know about the facts of life! Masterbation IS NOT a sin it is not going to make you blind, get pimples, stutter, make you cronic masterbator or mess up your life in general. 99.9% of people (both men and women) live norman lives and still masterbate.
I am 52 years old and my wife is 56 and we incorperate masterbation into our sex lives some times, and we masterbate alone, and still have a fantastic sex life.
Masterbation is a normal part of growing into adulthood. From puberty on you begin to explore your sexuality and this is usually the first way everyone starts, and if it feels good, well you know what they say... Parents need to talk to their children about this subject when they talk about sex and explain that it is nothing to be ashamed of and it is very normal.
As far as 3 or 4 times a day that is fine. You may find yourself slacking off as you get a little older. My advice is to not worry about it and to concentrate on other things that peak your interest. Take Care
I am 52 years old and my wife is 56 and we incorperate masterbation into our sex lives some times, and we masterbate alone, and still have a fantastic sex life.
Masterbation is a normal part of growing into adulthood. From puberty on you begin to explore your sexuality and this is usually the first way everyone starts, and if it feels good, well you know what they say... Parents need to talk to their children about this subject when they talk about sex and explain that it is nothing to be ashamed of and it is very normal.
As far as 3 or 4 times a day that is fine. You may find yourself slacking off as you get a little older. My advice is to not worry about it and to concentrate on other things that peak your interest. Take Care