Well , I'm 17 years old and I recently had my first sexual experience with an ex boyfriend of mine. I was so nervous , I forgot to tell him to use protection. I know he didn't ejaculate inside me because I would of felt it. We honestly stopped and tried again around three times because every time he tried to fully insert his penis it caused an excruciating pain. I don't know if he pre ejaculated or not. I'm one month away from my 18th birthday, Im enrolling in college in Januray and I have a job. I hope my first time didn't ruin my life
Dear Angelina
Despite what some medics aver, some UK research has indicated that pre-cum can get you pregnant if it contains sperm. It seems that some men always have sperm in their pre-cum, others never. That is apart from residual sperm from a previous ejaculation. The chances are less than with semen.
But it depends when it happened in relation to your fertile days. You didn't state:
- the date it happened
- the date your last period started
- and how long your cycle is (typically 28 days).
Why do you say "I know he didn't ejaculate inside me because I would of [have] felt it"? How do you know that as you say it was "my first time"? I don't think you would necessarily feel him ejaculate semen. You certainly are unlikely to feel pre-cum entering.
"I hope my first time didn't ruin my life"
- So why is it you "recently had my first sexual experience with an ex boyfriend"? Not a current boyfriend, but an ex-boyfriend!
- Although "I was so nervous , I forgot to tell him to use protection", yet you "tried again around three times"!
Take care. Sounds like it could happen again.