hey all, im a 14 year old guy, me and my gf, she is 16, have been together about a week, but had a long relationship about 2 months ago. Now we both feel that to re-unite our love we should take the step into sex.
But im 9.5 inches when erect and i have a wide penis, much bigger than all of my friends. I feel that i may be too big for her as we are both virgins. I tried it once and i got half way in her and she said she felt that it was too painfull and that i should finger her deep for a while and try again another time.
I feel really strongly for her so i dont want to force her into doing anything. However if i know that this relationship wont lead to sex then i may re-consider my choices...
am i too big for a virgin ? ? ?
But im 9.5 inches when erect and i have a wide penis, much bigger than all of my friends. I feel that i may be too big for her as we are both virgins. I tried it once and i got half way in her and she said she felt that it was too painfull and that i should finger her deep for a while and try again another time.
I feel really strongly for her so i dont want to force her into doing anything. However if i know that this relationship wont lead to sex then i may re-consider my choices...
am i too big for a virgin ? ? ?
your not too big, my first time, 9" and it was painful... sad thing was the guy didnt care if it hurt me or not.. but.... you do know that it's a bad idea to have sex... teens really arent allowed to until they are 16 years of age. and.. the reason why it's too big? It would hurt any virgin with that. don't leave her just because you cant have sex. Thats alittle harsh. there will be pain on her part, so expct it but don't you think your having sex too soon? think over the whole sex thing because there is nothing worse then a turned on 14 year old who's upset because he can't get any... pretty much what i'm trying to say is this...
#1. Your not too big.
#2. It's going to hurt at first for her either way.
#3. your too young for sex as much as the law is concerned.. not me.
#4. If you leave her because you can't get sex... makes you an evil bastard.
There you go! I'm not being mean I swear. just trying to keep the world in ballance. ^.~
#1. Your not too big.
#2. It's going to hurt at first for her either way.
#3. your too young for sex as much as the law is concerned.. not me.
#4. If you leave her because you can't get sex... makes you an evil bastard.
There you go! I'm not being mean I swear. just trying to keep the world in ballance. ^.~
i think that came out a bit wrong. I wouldnt leave her just cos she isnt ready.
and thanks for the reply, so as long as im gentle, it wont be much worse than any other.
Are there anyways that she could be loosened up? like through me fingering her etc. ?
and thanks for the reply, so as long as im gentle, it wont be much worse than any other.
Are there anyways that she could be loosened up? like through me fingering her etc. ?
well yeah, that would be your best bet, fingering is a good start add one finger, then two, then three to stretch her.. and when you start to have sex just inch in and be slow. Tell her it will hurt but it will go away alittle while after. Good luck kid. Not like i can stop you. USE A RUBBER! ;-)
I wonder if condoms are more likely to break? I never tried stretching one over a rubbing alcohol container [they are 7.5" in girth].
The porn star Mandingo is 6.5" in girth. You anything like him? If so, from what I've learned from the pornos, Asian girls want to give you their as****e. Or something.
BTW, sex can always wait. It's not as if you are in a rush or anything - hell, sex at 35yrs feels the same as sex at 14yrs. Better actually, because if you've learned to wait that long, you have self-control and sex becomes much more of a mental and emotional joining than physical coupling.
The porn star Mandingo is 6.5" in girth. You anything like him? If so, from what I've learned from the pornos, Asian girls want to give you their as****e. Or something.
BTW, sex can always wait. It's not as if you are in a rush or anything - hell, sex at 35yrs feels the same as sex at 14yrs. Better actually, because if you've learned to wait that long, you have self-control and sex becomes much more of a mental and emotional joining than physical coupling.
i am 6 inches in girth... but thats no problem as condoms come in different sizes.
What do u guy eat i am 14 and my penis is 4 inches by 1.4 inches. Althow i compared 2 my good friens and it iz avra o.O ge.
eh, i dont think it matters what they eat. I'm so happy that i'm a girl. No worries about a penis lol well... kinda.. but not the kind you guys have.