Hi im ciara im 15 this is embarrasing but I have had sex three times with the same guy and have not had an orgasm or cummed during sexual intercourse. During sex everytime I bleed. The only pleasure I ever had was rubbing my cilt if I put my fingers in nothing happens and I dont know why. I cant tell my parents or doctor im way to young someone please help me in anyway you can. Any help is greatly appreciated :)
nothing to be embarrased about but really every girl cant testify to this. i can tell you during my first time i was left wondering why someone would want me to wait for that. really it wasnt that great. even a friend of mine said she didnt get her first orgasum until she was well in her 20s. usually a guy when hes young doesnt know what hes doing ans since you are new to it you dont really no what you like and neigther does your body if that makes since. now im 18 almost 19 and i can tell you i didnt get my first orgasum until i met my current boyfriend. i had to fake it for everyone else. i never told anyone this but its the truth. so really you and your partner just need to explore. give him suggestions on things he can do to make it better for you. one thing i suggest is letting him put your legs up above your shoulders. its amazing trust me but it takes some getting used to and might be a pleasure overload the first few times. now the bleeding can be caused by a few things. he is eigther being to rough or your vagina is really tight and not wet enough. this is where forplay comes in. before just jumping in to sex do things to make your vagina wet by letting him play with it. and once its really wet and a little loose then let him inside. also tell him to be gentle for a little bit and then start to pick up speed or intensity. but hope i helded. if theres anything else just ask
Thank you I thought something was wrong with me everything makes sense now. And i've tryed the legs over shoulder thing and nothing then I tryed doggystyle and nothing happened but I know he really enjoyed it
yeah you just need to do some exploring. cause even with my current bf i have moments where i just lay there while he finishes off. but keep trying im sure you'll get yours eentually