I have this problem,
I can get turned on, but not easily, and my boyfriend and I, don't have sex. We just touch eachother.
And I have this issue where if he rubs my clitoris, it feels amazing at first and I want more, thenn the pleasure just stops and it feels like I can't take it anymore, but I don't tell him, and then my body like, twitches because i don't know why.
Then i'm just a hopeless body that can't be pleased.
Then I can't get wet.
And since i don't get wet then, and he fingers me, it hurts so so bad.
Then it hurts to pee, and walk.
Someone please give me advice as to why my body does this. :-(
if he rubs my clitoris, it feels amazing at first and I want more, thenn the pleasure just stops and it feels like I can't take it anymore, but I don't tell him, and then my body like, twitches because i don't know why.
It sounds like you just described an orgasm.
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That's also normal after having an orgasm.
How old are you?
Do you masturbate?
That is a wonderful way to learn what pleasures you so you can tell/show your bf what to do.
I think you need to spend more time on the foreplay before going for the clitoral orgasm.
It takes practice and trying different ways of doing things to figure out just how to get your body to respond with maximum pleasure. Don't give up, just keep trying and experimenting and looking around for different ways. You've got the orgasm working, now you and he, need to learn how to get your body properly warmed up before you get to the orgasm so you and he can really enjoy it. He may not know it now, but when he can get your body to respond with maximum pleasure for you, he will also achieve maximum pleasure for himself.
Recently there was a terrific description posted here for giving oral to a woman. That would certainly help you. If I can find it I will come back and post a link to it for you.