Hi there,
I wonder if anyone can help.
I had unprotected sex with a woman (she was 24 and a recent graduate) I met her at a bar, only had vaginal sex, I did not ejaculate inside her. The following day I asked her and she said she had been checked recently and was clean, and asked me the same - I had been clean, got checked the last time I ha sex.
I am just so paranoid I could have contracted HIV, what are the chances, or a young white female in the United States carrying the disease? if so, what are the chances of me getting it?
We did it a little over a month ago - today, I had some diahrrea, though now I think I am better, just a little bit of lower back pain, though this could quite easily be a stomach bug or something right?
I fully intend on getting checked out, but just for now, can someone tell me whether or not it is likely I have HIV?
I know what I did was stupid, and I regret it so much, I can only learn from it.
Thanks.
I would not be too concerned, the commonly quoted statistics on a male catching HIV from 1 episode of unprotected vaginal intercourse is 1 in 2000 according to my own doctor (I have been in your shoes)...Though still always worth getting tested for peace of mind. (Trust me... I did get tested...3 times)
ΟΚ,,,
most of us had this kind of experience in the past. It is a little stupid to have Unprotected sex with a woman and eventually don't ejaculate inside her, since you are not going to have the satisfaction it gives why take the risk? I have done it four times in the recent years and after always felt real stupid for exposing myself to potential STDs for nothing. I have also taken the HIV test 3 times and I was negative all times.