Hi. I don't know if I lost my virginity. Two days ago I was with my boyfriend and he started rubbing my clit (we were half naked) and It hurted a bit, then I told him to take it slow and I started sitting on his lap while he was laying down. I'm a virgin and I don't know if the penis went inside. I asked him if we actually did it, he said no. But I'm still worried that I might be pregnant? Cause I went to the bathroom afterwards and my vagina was bleeding. There was small blood on my underwear the day after, and today there's a little more blood, and I searched on the internet what's the difference between period blood, and implantation blood came up. I asked my friend what's wrong with me, and she said it could be UTI. My stomach has been hurting since the day after, but not really hurting, feels like I ate a bad food, but I'm worried. Please help.
Hi ConfusedGirl,
If his penis did not enter your vagina, you are still a virgin. However your hymen may have been partially ruptured causing the bleeding, but it can be checked using a hand-mirror.
Bleeding might have occurred from scratching (you said it hurt). Again, you can check that with a mirror.
It wouldn't be implantation blood yet anyway. Not enough time has passed for that.
To get pregnant, sperm would have to enter your vagina at a fertile time, and you haven't stated what your last period start date was, nor when the next one is expected to start.
I hope this helps as a start.
If you want to talk more, just ask
You haven't said when your next period is expected (or your cycle length).
However, working on a typical 28-day cycle, your next period would be expected to start on 23rd July, and 18/19th July (you didn't say which day exactly it happened) would not have been fertile days.
I hope this helps, and if you want to talk more about this and/or other related aspects, please feel free to ask (privately if you prefer)