so six days ago my boyfriend and i had sex for the first time. he only went in/out about three times before we realized it was a bad idea. we then had anal sex for a few seconds and then he came in my mouth. we were both super scared so probably five hours after it happened i took a plan B. everyone keeps telling me there's no way i'm pregnant, even if he did precum because i took the pill and it's 95% effective when taken less than 24 hours after unprotected sex. but i can't help but worry. i really honeslty have no idea when my period is or how long it had been since i had it. it's pretty irregular. yesterday i had really sticky clear discharge...it practically peeled off of my underwear, and somebody told me that meant i'm ovulating. and i'm having pretty bad cramps, they feel like period cramps. but i also read that you should have your period 2-3 weeks after taking plan b. so are these pregnancy cramps? i'm so scared and worried...i can't eat or sleep or focus on the tons of school work i have to do. i can't find answers when i need them...somebody PLEASE help me? Can you get pregnant from precum? i'm BEGGING you.
I would say that your not pregnant.
Just so ya know, to vagina to anus to mouth, not so good. There is a lot of bacteria in our butt ends. Just keep in mind what comes out of there before you have a penis, that was just in your backdoor, now in your mouth!! Yucky.
Now if you plan to keep this up, you have to get yourself on some birth control. It makes no sense why you would want to put yourself thru this stress every single time you have intercourse. Look at you, you can't sleep, you can't eat, you can't focus on the most important thing at your your age right now, which is your education., and you are begging for some answers.
Come on, you sound smart enought to know that you can play games with your body. Go to Planned Parenthood and get er done.
but, can i get birth control without my parents knowing? how? where? does it cost money? will i need like...my insurance card and whatnot? i'm only fifteen, and i really don't want to make the same mistake twice. but i can't possibly tell my parents.
More info here
plannedparenthood.org
You can also find out where one close you you is located.
Call Planned Parenthood and make an appointment. They work on a sliding financial scale and you can get the pill for cheap thru them. Sometimes they may give you a month or so of samples where you don't have to pay at all. Trust me, your mom and dad won't ever know, unless you yourself tell them.