Okay... So my boyfriend and I have both neither had sex before. The very first time we had sex.. Hours after my skin down there got very irritated the next day there were two or three bumps they looked like zits and if I picked at them enough they would scab but if I didn't they would just heal and go away. THIS ONLY HAPPENS AFTER SEX.. And takes 3-4 days to heal completely. They do hurt as a normal zit would.. And itch a little. I'm really starting to worry. I dont know why they would keep coming back. And it's like in the same spot every time. My boyfriend and I both have no idea what it could be. It's really not near my opening at all. Mainly on the top where the hair is thickest. Could it just be irritation??? From friction and stuff? Please help.
Do you shave the area?
Yes I shave there quite frequently but it's not razor bumps. But I guess it could be adding to the irritation
I was thinking more along the lines of ingrowing hairs aggravated by the friction.
But would that happen every single time we have sex?? I dont know there's like four or five spots where they keep reoccurring at but only like two at a time will turn into a zit
What do they actually look like when they first appear?
Hi anon, if it was herpes it would recur occasionally, but not necessarily every time you have sex. once you have caught herpes for a female, it would recur about once a month at the most and not as a response to having sex. It is also unlikely to be herpes if neither if you had been sexually active before, but it is possible to get genital herpes from oral sex if the person performing oral sex has a coldsore at the time. And herpes usually doesn't look like a pimple. It would be unwise if me to say its not herpes over the internet, but it doesn't sound like it. Going to your doctor to get it checked out would be a good idea. It's probably something easy to treat. All the best.
The opening of my vagina has a white spot around the opening like when the penis enters. I never noticed it before. Could it be an irritation from the condom?
If you were performing dry sex then it’s possible that this happened from the friction, if not then it’s wise to go see your local ER and get your vagina checked out to make sure it’s not something dangerous best luck to you.