hello..im a 24 yrs arab girl.i lost my virginity last year with my fiance but we soon broke up and he told me what he had done(cz i never felt it though i saw blood) so i immediately went for an opperation to get my virginity back..its a year ahead now and last night i went out with my new boyfriend but he did not penetrate except from the outside,,yet i saw blood wen i got home and today morning aswell..can u plz tell me whats this..am i a woman again???or is it cz its been a year..plz help.im so afraid..
Hey sweetheart *cuddles you*,
First, may I say that though alot of people define virginity by whether the hymen is broken, it does not mean you are a virgin or not.
Many girls and teens tear or otherwise dilate their hymen while participating in sports like bicycling, horseback riding, gymnastics or inserting tampons, or while masturbating. A girl may not even know this has occurred, since there may be little or no blood or pain involved when this happens. The tissues of the vulva are generally very thin and delicate prior to puberty. The presence or absence of a hymen in no way indicates whether or not a female is a virgin. * You are a virgin until you have sexual intercourse.*
Some hymens are elastic enough to permit a penis to enter without tearing, or they tear only partially, and there is NO bleeding at all. When adequately lubricated the vagina is fairly 'flexible' and will stretch without discomfort for most women. Sometimes, a woman has sex for years with no real 'tearing' at all, only stretching of the hymen and then at another time the same woman might tear from 'rough sex' or sex with a different partner with a larger penis. Remnants of the hymen are usually still present until a woman delivers a baby vaginally.
IN OTHER WORDS unless he penetrated you, then you are still a virgin, if not then you aren't.
Can you help me?! I dont quite understadn why people like you go for the hymen repair operation: is it against you religion or something?!
with great respect and love,
kee
xxx
First, may I say that though alot of people define virginity by whether the hymen is broken, it does not mean you are a virgin or not.
Many girls and teens tear or otherwise dilate their hymen while participating in sports like bicycling, horseback riding, gymnastics or inserting tampons, or while masturbating. A girl may not even know this has occurred, since there may be little or no blood or pain involved when this happens. The tissues of the vulva are generally very thin and delicate prior to puberty. The presence or absence of a hymen in no way indicates whether or not a female is a virgin. * You are a virgin until you have sexual intercourse.*
Some hymens are elastic enough to permit a penis to enter without tearing, or they tear only partially, and there is NO bleeding at all. When adequately lubricated the vagina is fairly 'flexible' and will stretch without discomfort for most women. Sometimes, a woman has sex for years with no real 'tearing' at all, only stretching of the hymen and then at another time the same woman might tear from 'rough sex' or sex with a different partner with a larger penis. Remnants of the hymen are usually still present until a woman delivers a baby vaginally.
IN OTHER WORDS unless he penetrated you, then you are still a virgin, if not then you aren't.
Can you help me?! I dont quite understadn why people like you go for the hymen repair operation: is it against you religion or something?!
with great respect and love,
kee
xxx