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Hello.

im 19 yrs old and had an abortion 2months ago, i was fine after that until recently, i have started havin cramp feelins in my stomach on and off, and when me and my boyfriend try to have sex it hurts and burns when it goes in, then its fine but burns when we've finished?
I've been havin some thick discharge, and had a few blood spots, but i have no idea what this could be ?? Please help, its ruining my sex life!!
Stop having sex. If you are 19 and have already had an abortion, you need to not worry about your sex life and pay more attention to your future. Take it from someone who was pregnant by 18. If you don't want a baby, don't do the deed. Go to the doctor and get checked for all sexually transmitted diseases. At this point, you could have a lot more to worry about than your "sex life". Grow up.
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Since there was an abortion, I strongly suggest that you visit your doctor. There is possibilty that you did not have a clean abortion and there are pieces left on you uterus. You might need a dilation and curretage
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Okay- I am eighteen and had a similar experience after having a miscarriage earlier this year. You definitely need to take a trip to the doctor- it is very possible that, like me, you could have gotten an infection, although that does not necessarily mean that you have an STD (mine wasn't). Also, it takes a while to heal up after either. It could also be PID (Pelvic Inflammatory Disease) which can cause you to rupture.
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I am 18 and I had to have an abortion in June and ever since then, it hurts to have sex. It burns and I can't do most of the positions I use to because of the pain of something going through my stomach. I mean, not literally but it feels like it. I found out the burning is something called Vaginismus... not a STD but kind of like your vagina went through a shocking stage. I was 3 months when I got an abortion. I know.. I'm a horrible person but there was no possible way to have it in my situation. When I had the abortion, they put me on this IV with insane medication to make me extremely high. Or at least, that's how I felt. But I think I did something wrong during the abortion. I don't remember clear but I think I tightened my vagina muscles out of fear of the pain of them scrapping at me. Because of that... anything that goes inside me... I clench. It's a naturally reaction which is what Vaginismus is. But I'm curious to know what the stomach pain is. It kills me to have to say ouch to my boyfriend. He thinks he's doing things wrong now. To help with the Vaginismus... do Kegel exercises.
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Could be that something was left behind during your abortion.
But could also be a Kidney infection. I had a really bad kidney infection back in May and had all the same symptoms.
It started all like that and then turned in to nausea and i couldn't keep any food down. finally went to the doctors and ended up having to stay in the hospital for 3 days to flush my system of the infection.
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