I am 16...and i masterbate about 3-6 times a week...and i have just lost my virginity to my girlfriend, but it took a long time, and it is hard to get off when she gives me oral or hand jobs, or just plain sex...and i was wondering if i used to my hand and not her....or do i have a medical condition....i have no problems getting an erection either...
nah there is nothing wrong with u haha, i had the same problem, with me it was an hour +. i used to sweat buckets aswell it was alot of hard work and i used to think "f**k it" n just give up (i never did tho) cos once it was over it felt amazing! haha its sad to say tho im a shadow of the man i used to be haha wish i cud go back to the good old days lol. It cud be anything mate, maybe she isnt that tight lol and if she wanks you, she wont be able to do it good anyway i mean its a girl, only lads know how to wank themselves unless she is a pro and as for oral, well tell her to go slow and sensuall then slowly go faster and faster.....you could role play act out ur fantasy. Lastly try different positions i particularly like doggy cos most of my ex's have been mixed race lol and had nice ass's. One of the questions you need to ask urself mate is this, is she pressing your buttons? if she is then try the above if she aint pressin ya buttons then ur just forcing sexual activity.