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hi

im a 34 year old guy. i have been masterbating for the past 10 years or so. i have noticed that my penis has shrunk to a child like size. it used to be a good size a couple of years ago but now is very very small. my testicles also disappear. i have not slept with anyone before. my erections are not as hard as they used to be and dont stay for as long as they used to. my technique is that i will be in a missionary position on a sheet or something and have the underside of my penis rubbing against it. i was wondering if anyone knew what the reasons for that could be and whether anything can be done.

i will be getting married this year and was worried about my first night.
I will post here as I seem to be in the same situation as you and same age



I am a regular masturbator and this has not caused problems until 2 weeks ago

I did not notice a problem until I felt a tingling in my penis during sleep - it felt like my penis was shrinking so I touched my penis in an attempt to make it slightly erect but this had the opposite effect of making it retreat further

I thought that this would be a temporary problem (and I have refrained from attempting to get an erection during this period ) , however the problem has continued to the present day so my penis has been very small (child like) for 2 weeks and is unable to get an erection - it just hangs downwards and is quite thin - the only thing that increases the size is urine eg when I need to urinate

I have seen my doctor and he said that I have balanitis and has prescribed fucibet cream

At the time I did not know what balanitis was , but I do know now and was wondering whether the balanitis was caused by the reduction in size of my penis because the small sized penis in foreskin suitable for a larger penis results in urine being retained within the foreskin after urinating (it is difficult to drain it off completely)

I have used the fucibet cream and it has reduced the irritation and smell (it smelt a bit like straw) however this smell was not present when masturbating 2 weeks ago so that is why I do not think I had a hygene problem/balanitis before the shrinking penis problem

I have only used the fucibet cream for 2 days and I am having difficulty pulling the foreskin back to apply the cream to the penis head as my penis has become so small (and I can hardly see the head) also the instruction leaflet does not state how to apply the cream to the penis eg do I just leave it - or wipe it off (it does not mention that it can be used on the penis at all)
should I use a cotton bud to apply it if I cannot peel the foreskin back ?



This probably doesn't help you , I would be interested to know if your penis shrunk suddenly like mine - or over time and whether you were able to masturbate after it shrunk or did you have to wait for it to come back to life

damage to erectile tissue ?

penis fracture ?
f51.parsimony.net/forum204499

It is annoying that all google search results say that masturbation does not cause shrinkage of the penis
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I am 27 yrs of age and started masterbating when i was 14......and since than i have been masterbating almost regularly at least once a day....and many times twice or even more....i remember sometimes i used to masterbate even 4 or 5 times in 24 hours....!!!!

i was unaware if it could cause any problem or side effect??

but on more than one occasion i heard or read from some expert doctor or sexologist who were saying that masterbation isnt anywrong. all were confirming "USE IT OR LOOSE IT" rule....

i tried to stop masterbating , but that became possible for maximum of 2 weeks...and then i was back masterbating even more....!!!

but since last 1 year i m feeling that my desire for sex has lessened .....and so does the size of my penis...

still i cant stop masterbating...because it has become a very bad habit....i cant even sleep if i dont do it. but i notice that i m not enjoyin it as much as i used to do it....and even my penis has become small....and its not getting as hard as it used to be.

can anyone help me out with the correct remidies???

i can see many other people also having the same difficulties as i had experienced.
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I guess im the odd ball in the group my first masturbation experience was when i was in the 4th grade and im not kidding. even though nothin came out in the end nothing came out it sure felt good. Im 34 now i still masturbate at least once a day and up to 4 or five times a day. there are months where i wont do any thing then the urge hits and im off and goin for months. much like a beng drinker.
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When yous say small, how small are yous talking? When erect how big are you's? I'm 21 and my penis doesnt seem to go as hard as it used to, and i think its because i never have energy, and i dont usually masterbait when i'm turned on i just do it out of habbit or because i'm board, i also have a problem where my foreskin is sticking to the head, my head is abit wrinkly, is it supposed to be completly smooth?
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I have this same wrinklyness, for 4 months now, my penis is redder too, and now i cant get an erection without masterbating, i dredd having sex, something which i normally love, its destroying my relationship even though my girlfriend saying she understands, she is getting frustrated too. Ive had multiple clear STI checks. All of this has come on too sudden to accept as a "im getting older" sort of thing. Its so soul destroying watching my penis get smaller, and not being able to carry on a great sex life with my beautiful girlfriend.



I guess its back to the docs AGAIN, somebody help !!!!! :(
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im 26 and i have noticed that my penis is getting bigger when i masterbate
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It doesn't matter on how much you masturbate everything that controls the size and thickness of your penis is well for starters if you have the genes for it. Second, iit matters upon your physical fitness. If you sit all day and end up masturbating when you come home you have no physical movement you aren't doing anything. You might be eating right and have a fast matabolsim but it doesn't count. Also, healthy ejaculations are most likely once or twice a day. But if you go over bored your penis will always have the erge to be stroke so you get frequent erections. On the last note, when you masturbate over 5 6 times a day and you body becomes DEPENDENT on it those are the first stages od sexual dependensy without a partner as know as a sex addict. Which can cause mental illnesses and have you devrived out of your life and natural place.
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Most of you sound like your are sexually addicted or have a sexual addiction. Im no doctor but i have become paranoid that i too have the same problem i currently have balanoposthitis and my doctor has given me amoxacillin to take to get rid of it. If its balinitis it should go away after you have finished the doctors treatment but i would refrain from masterbating at all untill its fully healed.
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yo guys was up.so heres the deal,everybody has the same prob there penis has been shrinking etc etc same is happening with me
also my skin isnt irritated but its mostly a bit wrinkely.and if there is a proffesional sexxoligist here we can all use ur help please we dont want small penisses...................we want to make woman enjoy  and have the same feeling.
what should we do????????????????????????????
cause i dont think stopping with masterbation wil help iit will only make us hornier
please help man...............
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how many times a day do you masturbate so your penis gets bigger
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I thought I became impotent when I was 35, hardly got an erection even a beautiful girl was lying in my bed naked. I am OK now and what I did was to change my lifestyle habits. I used to work in bar and got drunk and stayed up late most nights. I took a year off, ate more vegetable, gallic, rode bicycle ( very good for for penis muscle), doing lots of Kegel exercises, stop smoking, drinking, now my erection is like 18 years old.

For some weird reason, the time that I masturbated most days, I didn't have a girlfriend for 4 years.  As soon as I stopped masterbating , girls just dropped in my feet, maybe my face looked relaxed and happy, no kidding, I pick them like flowers.
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i have the same problem did u get any answer?
thank you
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im 16 i masterbait and i run a mile and lift weights everyday and im kindof chunky and im slowly trimming down will my penis enlarge when i trim down more
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