ejaculation problem

renge344980 over a year ago

first of just wanna tell that i know there are similar posts already with many answers but i want to add some stuff that i did not find.

i have no problem while masturbating but when i have sex i do not ejaculate, even my first time i didnt ejaculate even though we kept going for at least 30min and i thought that was kind of weird. but i did feel like a might start to ejaculate last time though so i think it is fine just that it takes a lot of time for some reason but i just want to make sure that it is not possible to ejaculate without me or my girl noticing, that shouldn't be possible right?

1: i don't feel that i ejaculate2: she don't feel it and if i had come inside she would have felt it right? 3: i do not get that feeling you normally get in your balls afterwards.

so can someone just give me a conformation that it really isn't possible for both of us not to notice and if it is possible please tell me.

and if anyone has anything to make you cum faster that would be nice, my girl collapsed of exhaustion last time after like 1h so i really don't wanna be so slow

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freshman noise over a year ago

Hi Renge. First of all if you use to masturbate a lot it could be that your body has got use to only that feeling to come to ejaculation also if your circumcised then the head of the penis is less sensitive and can take more stimulation to get that feeling. Your girlfriend wouldn't necessary feel when you ejaculate semen she might feel the contractions as you ejaculate though. When you masturbate how long do you take before you ejaculate? Have you had your gf give you a bj yet and can you cum like that? Try getting your gf to give you a ha****b until you feel yourself getting close to cuming then slip inside an see if you can finish like that. If you have any more questions feel free to ask me.

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renge344980 over a year ago

not circumcised and well i can masturbate for a few hours if a wanna but if i don't try to do it for as long as possible then maybe 5-10min havent really kept time, tried bj for like 30sec-1min(new couple so...) and it was great can probably come like that i think but we haven't done very much, i guess i should have mentioned that we only done it 4times. think it can help if i don't masturbate or if not doing for long times instead? thanks for the fast reply :D

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renge344980 over a year ago

not circumcised and well i can masturbate for a few hours if a wanna but if i don't try to do it for as long as possible then maybe 5-10min havent really kept time, tried bj for like 30sec-1min(new couple so...) and it was great can probably come like that i think but we haven't done very much, i guess i should have mentioned that we only done it 4times. think it can help if i don't masturbate or if not doing for long times instead? thanks for the fast reply :D not sure how this site works, do i have to "quote this post in your reply" for you to notice a replied?

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freshman noise over a year ago

When you say you only done it 4 times do you mean you was a virgin before that or is that just with this partner if so was you the same in taking a long time to climax with others? Are you using condoms when your having sex with your gf because they can make you last longer as some can take away sensitivity. Can I also ask how old are you?

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freshman noise over a year ago

No you don't have to quote the reply for me to be notified someone has replied but they have just redone the site and some things are still a bit buggy yet but I do check posts I have posted on just incase there is a reply I don't get notification for.

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renge344980 over a year ago

well to be honest we started dating just 1 week ago and yes a was virgin before that. and we have done with and without condom and either way we did it for 30+min and i felt like a could have kept going without problem. but the biggest worry i have is just the chance of her getting pregnant without us noticing. of course i wanna solve this problem but i myself really don't care if i cum or not but she thinks it is important but im satisfied as long as it feels good and it really does even if i do not cum 20 years old

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renge344980 over a year ago

i do think the biggest problem is probably that i might be subconsciously scared of getting her pregnant, because i have something, maybe youcan call it trauma from my childhood when my father's ex just left him when she got pregnant. i really don't think about it ever, but i know that the subconscious often effects a person without them realizing it.

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freshman noise over a year ago

It could be a subconscious fear about that but then why does it still take you a long time to cum when you masturbate if that's the case, have you tried just having oral with you gf to see if you cum quicker then?

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renge344980 over a year ago

we haven't tried much oral. now i only need 5min to masturbate but i think maybe im not very sensitive since i am used to masturbating for hours since when i was younger i tried to prolong it and sometimes did it for 4-6h so i think it might have gotten used to it. not sure if it works that way though.. guess we just have to wait and see what happens and we can't really go see someone about it either since we live in another country at the moment and no neither of us speak the language very well and no one here speak english so gotta wait till we get back

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